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Here
I am, fifty-eight, and I still
don't know
what I'm going
to be
when I grow up.
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Sometimes
during the day, I consciously focus on some ordinary object and
allow myself a momentary "paying-attention." This
paying-attention gives meaning
to my life. I don't know who it was, but someone said that
careful attention
paid to anything is a window into the universe. Pausing to think
this way,
even for a brief moment, is very important. It gives quality to
my day.
Robert Fulghum |
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As
you take a few minutes each day to quiet your mind, you
will
discover a
nice benefit: your everyday, "ordinary"
life will begin
to seem far more
extraordinary. Little
things that previously went
unnoticed will begin to
please you. You'll be more easily satisfied,
and happier
all around. Rather
than focusing on what's wrong with
your life, you'll find yourself thinking
about and more
fully enjoying
what's right with your life. The world won't
change, but your
perception of it will. You'll start to
notice the little acts
of
kindness and caring from other
people rather than
the negativity and anger.
Jack Canfield
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Nothing ever
is,
everything is becoming.
Plato |
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Richard Carlson
An excellent way to practice love is to set
your attention on seeing beyond
someone's behavior or
personality. Try to realize that beneath the
surface insecurity,
negative thinking, and poor behavior,
everyone is connected to God. Just as you wouldn't
get angry at someone simply because he or she is in a
wheelchair, you need not
be angry because a person hasn't
yet opened his heart to the nourishment of his Soul.
When people act in unloving ways, it only
means that they are out of touch
with their Souls and
aren't feeling spiritually nourished. When that
happens,
there is no need to panic. The best we can
do for ourselves is nourish
our own Soul by looking
beyond the behavior we don't care for,
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We
are all so bent
and determined to get what we want, we miss the lessons
that could be learned from life's experiences. Many
of my AIDS patients
discovered that the last year of
their lives was by far their best. Many have said
they wouldn't have traded the rich quality of that last
year of life for a healthier body. Sadly, it is
only when tragedy strikes that most of us begin attending
to the deeper aspects of life. It is only then that
we attempt to go beyond surface concerns--what we look
like,
how much money we make, and so forth--to discover
what's really important.
Elisabeth
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I
have told you of those who
always
put on their spectacles
when about
to eat cherries,
in order that the
fruit might
look larger and more
tempting. In like
manner I always
make
the most of any enjoyments,
and,
though I do not cast
my eyes
away from troubles,
I pack
them into
as small a
compass as I can for myself,
and
never let them annoy others.
Robert
Southey
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We are all at different stages of growth,
so we each need different things
to trigger that
connection to the soul. What works for me on any
given day
might not work for someone else, or for me on
another day.
Often, it is the basic things. I
live ten feet from the ocean, in a small cottage.
I
need to be by the water; I've spent a lot of my journey
getting closer and closer
to this water. I need to
remember, to get up in the morning and watch the sunrise
and take a moment at night to see and feel the sunset.
I need to see the colors
of the sky; I need to feel
the colors. I need to surround myself with music,
because my soul resonates to music. I've decorated
my home with
the colors of the universe--bright colors.
Color is light.
Colors help me feel alive,
help me feel passionate, help me remember
that I'm here
to be an alive, passionate human being.
Melody Beattie
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William Feather
Here is the secret of
inspiration.
Tell yourself that thousands and tens of people,
not very
intelligent and certainly no more intelligent than the
rest of us,
have mastered problems as difficult as those
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Clay is fashioned
into vessels; it is on their empty hollowness that their
use depends.
Doors and windows are cut out to make
a dwelling, and on the empty space within,
its use
depends. Thus, while the existence of things may be
good,
it is the non-existence in them that makes them
serviceable.
Lao
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William
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The
tree which moves some to tears of joy is in the eyes of
others
only a green thing which stands in the way. To
the eyes of people
of imagination Nature is Imagination
itself. As we are, so we see. |
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I pictured
a rainbow
you held it in your hands
I had flashes
but you saw the plan
I wandered out in the world for years
while you just stayed in your room
I saw the crescent
you saw the whole of the moon
I was grounded
while you filled the skies
I was dumbfounded by truth
you cut through lies
I saw the rain-dirty valley
you saw Brigadoon |
I saw the crescent
you saw the whole of the moon
I spoke about wings
you just flew
I wondered, I guessed and I tried
you just knew
I sighed
but you swooned
I saw the crescent
you saw the whole of the moon
Mike Scott
adapted from "The Whole of the Moon"
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There are
two worlds: the world that
we can measure with line and rule,
and the world that we can feel
with our hearts and imagination.
Leigh Hunt |
All
things are literally better, lovelier, and more beloved
for the imperfections that have been divinely appointed,
that the law of human life may be Effort,
and the law of
human judgment, Mercy.
John
Ruskin |
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They
are wise people who do not grieve
for the things
which they have not,
but rejoice for those which they have.
Epictetus |
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It is better for
you to be free of fear lying upon a pallet,
than to have
a golden couch and a rich table and be full of trouble.
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most valuable aspect of my life has been the period that I've lived in
Europe. I've spent five years over
there--almost two in Spain and over three in Germany.
I've also spent four years in the army, and I've
lived in every geographic area of the united states save
the northwest. I've also spent over eight years in
college, studying literature (especially world lit) and
teaching English as a Second Language, which has also
opened up my eyes to many different ways of looking at
the world.
These things have been important to
me because I've felt my eyes and my mind open up
considerably, especially in the way that I'm able to see
wisdom in the words of others. I've learned that
there are many wonderful people on this planet, and I've
had the great honor and privilege of meeting many of them,
though you would have heard of none of them. But
they're people I can learn from, if I but keep my mind
open to their lessons, if I but listen--no, hear--when
they speak, if I pay close attention when I read their
works.
Living in so
many places has helped me to see just how differently people from
other places and cultures see the world, and just how valid their
perspective is, no matter how much it may differ from mine.
People in Spain tend to see relationships differently than people in
New England, and the Germans tend to see work differently than people
in Arizona. And that doesn't matter--neither group's perspective
is wrong, and neither is necessarily a perspective that others should
adopt.
Perspective
can cause us to see a
beautiful sunset as a boring, ordinary part of daily life, or it
can help us to see the beauty in the many "ordinary"
things that surround us. Almost everything we see
or have access to is a miracle, either in its simplicity
or complexity. The flowers that grow in our gardens have gone
through an amazing process of turning from a seed to flowers.
The rivers that flow are fed with water that has gone through an
incredible cycle of evaporation, falling as rain, flowing to a certain
area where it can join the river. The fact that I can write these
words and put them on the internet so that friends I shall never meet in
South Africa and Hong Kong can read
them is one of the greatest miracles of our times, yet
the internet has quickly become "normal," a
tool for businesses to make more money.
But I've recognized something very
important--I can refuse to see the world and the things
and people in it as "normal"; I can choose to
see the marvelous qualities of everything, but I have to
work at it, for our societal norms tell us to value
conformity and the status quo. I'll always look for
the beauty in trees, the soul in the eyes of the people I meet, the wonder of the flowers that come out each spring,
the loveliness of children at play. And I'll do so
because I choose to do so, for those are the important
things in life. I'm not here to make money or
become famous--I'm here to love and to live. If I focus on that and maintain a great deal of responsibility (yes,
i will work), then I can't help but live a full life, for
there are many more rewards available to those who are
easily satisfied and entertained, and I choose to be more
than satisfied with the reward of a child's smile or a
friend's "thank you."
tdw
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I am entirely on the side of mystery.
I mean, any attempt to explain away the mystery is
ridiculous.
I believe in the profound and
unfathomable mystery of life
which has a sort of divine
quality about it.
Aldous Huxley |
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The most
beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious.
It is
the fundamental emotion which stands at the
cradle of true art and true science.
Albert Einstein |
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Compared to what we
ought to be, we are only half awake. We are
making
use of only a small part of our physical and mental
resources.
William James |
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Through the eyes of our
minds you and I look out at reality (ourselves, other people,
life,
the world, and God). However, we see these things
differently.
Your vision of reality is not mine and, conversely,
mine is not yours.
Both of our visions are limited and
inadequate, but not to the same extent.
We have both
misinterpreted and distorted reality, but in different ways.
We
have each seen something of the available truth and beauty to which
the other has been blind. The main point is that it is the
dimensions and clarity
of this vision that determine the dimensions of
our worlds and the quality of our lives.
To the extent that we
are blind or have distorted reality, our lives and our happiness
have
been diminished. Consequently, if we are to change--to
grow--there must first
be a change in this basic vision, or perception
of reality.
John
Powell
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In the family it is said Gabe
"doesn't notice much--his head is in the clouds."
He
accepts this criticism as complimentary: "In the
clouds? Oh, thank you. I try."
Laura Cunningham
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When people
look only at the surface and that satisfies them
and they think from
that surface they see, that is to be truly blind.
Beah Richards
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There are long periods when
life seems a small, dull round,
a petty business
with no point, and then
suddenly we are caught up
in some great event which
gives us a glimpse
of the solid and durable foundations of our existence.
Elizabeth II
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Faced
with the choice between changing one's mind
and proving there
is no need
to do so,
almost everyone gets busy on the proof.
John
Kenneth Galbraith
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It
is the close observation of little things which is the secret of
success
in business, in art, in science, and in every pursuit of
life.
Samuel Smiles
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You see things;
and say "Why?"
But I dream things that never were; and
say, "Why not?"
George Bernard
Shaw
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The
surest way to corrupt young people is to teach them to
esteem more
highly those who think alike than those who
think differently.
Friedrich Nietzsche
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The
aspects of things that are most important for us
are hidden because of their simplicity and familiarity.
Ludwig Wittgenstein
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