Be who you are and say what you feel
because those who mind don't matter
and those who matter don't mind.

Dr. Seuss

Each person had only one genuine vocation -- to find the way
to himself. . . . One's task was to discover one's own destiny -- not
an arbitrary one -- and to live it out wholly and resolutely within
oneself.  Everything else was only a would-be existence, an
attempt at evasion, a flight back to the ideals of the masses,
conformity, and fear of one's own inwardness.

Herman Hesse, in his novel Demian 

  

The task is to recognize that you are uniquely special, have something to give,
some talent no one else shares in quite the same way.  This gift needs
to blossom so we can appreciate and enjoy the benefits of it and
acknowledge you for it.   You owe this to yourself and to all of us to honor
your gifts, for only when you share your unique joy with the world does
the entire world benefit.  Every advance mankind has known has come
because of someone's effort.  Don't let shyness rob you and the world
of the power and the passion that lies within you.  No one can be all that
you will be except you yourself.  Follow your passion.

Joel Garfinkle

  
     

Your only obligation in any lifetime is to be true to yourself.

Richard Bach

  

Do not carry the burden of the past; do not live in the future.
The only important thing is that one lives in the present authentically
and fully.  Whatever your current life is, be the most
you can be by living in the moment.

Chan Chih

  

It is finally when you let go
of what people expect you
to be and people's perceptions
of you that you're able to be
the version of yourself that
you're supposed to be-- like
in God's eyes.  It doesn't matter
if you're half crazy, or eccentric,
or whatever it is-- that you have
to be true to who
you were born to be.

Gwyneth Paltrow

  

To think is easy.  To act is difficult.
To act as one thinks is the most difficult.

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

  

Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most
deeply and vitally alive, along with which comes the inner voice which says,
'This is the real me,' and when you have found that attitude, follow it.

William James

  
   
The eighteenth-century German philosopher Johann Herder taught
that each person has an original and unique manner of being human.
The task is to develop it.  According to Nietzsche, a person is known
by his or her "style," that is, by the unique pattern that gives unity
and distinctiveness to a person's activities.  Style articulates the
uniqueness of the self.  Rather than fitting one's life into the demands
of external conformity, rather than living one's life as an imitation of
the life of another, one should look to find the authentic self within.
One should labor to develop one's own unique style in crafting one's soul.
An individual who denies his or her own individuality articulates life with
a voice other than that which is uniquely his or her own.  A person who
suppresses his or her own self is in danger of missing the point of his or her
own existence, of surrendering what being human means.

Rabbi Byron L. Sherwin,
in Crafting the Soul
   

Once you accept and rejoice in your authenticity, you begin
to see things as YOU are.  You begin to see the authentic self
is the Soul made visible.  Godspeed on your journey to wholeness.

Sarah Ban Breathnach

   

   
The more authentic you become, the more genuine in
your expression, particularly regarding personal experiences
and even self-doubts, the more people can relate to your
expression and the safer it makes them feel to express
themselves.  That expression in turn feeds back on the other
person's spirit, and genuine creative empathy takes place,
producing new insights and learnings.

Stephen Covey

   

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We need to find the courage to say NO to the things and people
that are not serving us if we want to rediscover ourselves
and live our lives with authenticity.

Barbara De Angelis

  

Some writers confuse authenticity, which they ought always to aim at,
with originality, which they should never bother about.

W.H. Auden

   
  

If you seek authenticity for authenticity's sake you are no longer authentic.

Jean-Paul Sartre

  

You cannot fail at being yourself.  A cat doesn't try to be
a tiger, and you shouldn't try to be something you aren't.
You are a process, not a product.  Your job is to discover
what you are and create that creature.  You still won't be
perfect, but success isn't about perfection--it is
about authenticity.  You are a success if you are
being your real, authentic self.

Bernie Siegel

   

    
I believe one of our souls' major purposes is to know, love, and express
our authentic selves.  To live the life and be the person we were created
to be.  However, our true selves only emerge when it's safe to do so.
Self-condemnation, shame, and guilt send your true nature into hiding.
It's only in the safety of gentle curiosity, encouragement, and self-love
that your soul can bloom as it was created to do.

Sue Patton Thoele

   
   

When one is pretending the entire body revolts.

Anaïs Nin

   
We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.
   

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