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Look at everything as though you were seeing it
either for the first or last time.  Then your time
on earth will be filled with glory.

Betty Smith

They who will live for others shall have great troubles, but they shall seem to them small.
Those who will live for themselves shall have small troubles, but they shall seem to them great.

William R. Inge

  

Stop a minute to contrast your keen interest in your own affairs with your
mild concern about anything else.  Realize, then, that everybody else in the
world feels exactly the same way!  Then you will have grasped the only
solid foundation for interpersonal relationships; namely, that success in dealing
with people depends on a sympathetic grasp of the other person's viewpoint.

Kenneth M. Goode

      
Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often
see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can
render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.

Baltasar Gracian
  

A youth is to be regarded with respect.  How do you know
that his or her future will not be equal to our present?

Confucius

   

Somebody was saying to Picasso that he ought to make pictures
of things the way they are--objective pictures.  He mumbled that
he wasn't quite sure what that would be.  The person who was
bullying him produced a photograph of his wife from his wallet
and said, "There, you see, that is a picture of how she really is."
Picasso looked at it and said, "She is rather small, isn't she?  And flat?"

Gregory Bateson

   

Perspective is one of the most important aspects of our lives.  How we see things
determines more of our happiness our unhappiness, positive or negative feelings, than
we might ever imagine.  One person's undefeatable obstacle is another person's
stumbling block; what I see as an insult another person may see as a funny joke.
The ways in which we react to things are usually a reflection of how we've seen them.

tom walsh

   

   

There's something special for everyone to do.  Remember, no
experience is a bad experience unless you gain nothing from it.

Lyndon Baines Johnson

   

Perhaps it would be a good idea,
fantastic as it sounds, to muffle
every telephone, stop every
motor and halt all activity
for an hour some day to give
people a chance to ponder for
a few minutes on what it is
all about, why they are living
and what they really want.

James Truslow Adams

   

Perhaps we only think we know where we are going as all the while we are really
going somewhere quite different.  I have done many things in order to achieve
a valued goal only to discover in time that the real goal my choices have led me toward
is something else entirely.  Something I could not even have known existed
when I first set foot upon the path.  The purpose underlying life often wears the mask
of whatever has our attention at the time.  The very reason we were born, our greatest blessing,
or our way to serve may come into our lives looking like a new car, a chance to travel,
or a cup of the finest coffee.  The truth is that we are always moving toward mystery
and so we are far closer to what is real when we do not see our destination clearly.

Rachel Naomi Remen

  

If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each
person's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

   
Education is more than schooling.  It is a cast of mind, a willingness to see the world with an endless sense of curiosity and wonder.
   If you would be truly educated, you must adopt this cast of mind.  You must open yourself to the richness of your everyday experience--to your own emotions, to the movements of the heavens and the languages of birds, to the privations and successes of people in other lands and other times, to the artistry in the hands of the mechanic and the typist and the child.  There is no limit to the learning that appears before us.  It is enough to fill us each day a thousand times over.

Kent Nerburn

   
It's not what they do to you, it's what you do
with what they do to you, that counts.

Jean-Paul Sartre

   
   

Things are only worth
what you make them worth.

Moliere

Beware, as long as you live,
of judging people by appearances.

Jean de la Fontaine

   

Close your eyes and you will see clearly
Cease to listen and you will hear the truth.

Taoist Poem

   

   

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I am sure it is a great mistake always to know enough to go in when it rains.  One may keep snug and dry by such knowledge, but one misses a world of loveliness.

Adeline Knapp

An adventure is only an inconvenience rightly considered.
An inconvenience is only an adventure wrongly considered.

G.K. Chesterton

In order to maintain a well balanced perspective, people who have a dog to worship them should also have a cat to ignore them.

Peterborough Examiner

Climb up on some hill at sunrise.
Everybody needs perspective once in a while,
and you'll find it there.

Robb Sagendorph

   

One does not need to fast for days and meditate for hours
at a time to experience the sense of sublime mystery
which constantly envelops us.  All one need do is to
notice intelligently, if even for a brief moment, a blossoming tree,
a forest flooded with autumn colors, an infant smiling.

Simon Greenberg

   

Each circumstance and event, tragic or happy, is attracted to us by what we
have been and are, and in itself offers to us, by a right reaction to it,
the opportunity of spiritual development.

Raynor C. Johnson

   
   

For many years now I have listened to the stories of people with cancer
and other life-threatening illnesses as their counselor.  From them
I have learned how to enjoy the minute particulars of life once again,
the grace of a hot cup of coffee, the presence of a friend,
the blessing of having a new cake of soap or an hour without pain.
Such humble experience is the stuff that many of the very best stories are made of.
If we think we have no stories it is because we have not paid
enough attention to our lives.  Most of us live lives that are far richer
and more meaningful than we appreciate.

Rachel Naomi Remen

  

   

Remember, a small trouble is like a pebble.  Hold it too close to your
eye and it puts everything out of focus.  Hold it at proper viewing
distance and it can be examined and classified.  Throw it at your feet
and see it in its true setting--just one more tiny bump on the pathway.

Barbara Johnson

   
Slow down and take the time to really see.  Take a moment to see what is going on around you right now, right where you are.
You may be missing something wonderful.

J. Michael Thomas

   

Whoever you are, there is some younger person who thinks you are perfect.
There is some work that will never be done if you don't do it.
There is someone who would miss you if you are gone.
There is a good reason for becoming better than you are.
There is a place that you alone can fill.

anonymous

  

Today the greens are greener,
the clouds are puffier,
the things that are important
are more important,
and the things that aren't
have gone way down.

a man who escaped death

   
   
The magic that he taught me was not confined to words; he had a way of generating in me an excitement about things I had always taken for granted.  He might point to a bank of clouds.  "What do you see there?  Colors?  That's not enough.  Look for towers and drawbridges.  Look for dragons and griffins and strange and wonderful beasts."
  Or he might pick up an angry claw-brandishing blue crab, holding it cautiously by the back flippers as I had taught him.  "Pretend you're this crab," he'd say.  "What do you see through those stalklike eyes?  What do you feel with those complicated legs?  What goes on in your tiny brain?  Try it for just five seconds.  Stop being a boy.  Be a crab!"  And I would stare in amazement at the furious creature, feeling my comfortable identity lurch and sway under the impact of the idea.  So the days went by.

Arthur Gordon
    
The satiated person and the hungry one do not see the
same thing when they look upon a loaf of bread.

Jelaluddin Rumi
    

The enchanting, and sometimes terrifying, thing is that the world can be
so many things to so many different souls.  That it can be,
and is, all these things at once and the same time.

Henry Miller

   

We must not allow other people's limited perceptions to define us.

Virginia Satir

   

   
Whenever you hear anyone talking about a cultural or even about a human
problem, you should never forget to inquire who the speaker really is.  The
more general the problem, the more the person will smuggle his or her own
personal psychology into the account he or she gives of it.

Carl Jung
     

Yes, it is better to look from the window than not to look at all,
but to look through the window cannot be compared to the windowless sky.

Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh

    

You do not have to sit outside in the dark.  If, however,
you want to look at the stars, you will find that darkness
is necessary.  But the stars neither require nor demand it.

Annie Dillard

    
At around age six, perhaps, I was standing by myself in our front yard waiting for supper, just at that hour in a late summer day when the sun is already below the horizon and the risen full moon in the visible sky stops being chalky and begins to take on light.  There comes the moment, and I saw it then, when the moon goes from flat to round.  For the first time it met my eyes as a globe.  The word "moon" came into my mouth as though fed to me out of a silver spoon.  Held in my mouth the moon became a word.  It had the roundness of a Concord grape Grandpa took off his vine and gave me to suck out of its skin and swallow whole, in Ohio.

Eudora Welty
    

   
It is but one step from the sublime to the ridiculous.

Napoleon Bonaparte
   

People have the illusion that all over the world, all the time, all kinds of
fantastic things are happening.  When in fact, over most
of the world, most of the time, nothing is happening.

David Brinkley

   

Inside yourself or outside, you never have to change what you see,
only the way you see it.

Thaddeus Golas

   

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Articles and book excerpts on perspective:

Affirmations:  Creating Our Positive Outlook      Barry Bitman
You're a Beautiful Person      tom walsh

A Worn-Out Creed     Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Born with Love      Marianne Williamson

A Creed of the Open Road      Ralph Waldo Trine

Differences      Iyanla Vanzant

Do One Thing Different      Bill O'Hanlon

Forgiveness      Wayne Dyer

Good and Bad      Benjamin Hoff

Gratitude:  Why and for What?     Bernie Siegel

Gratitude Is Larger Than Life      Melody Beattie

Gratitude      Sarah Ban Breathnach

His Kind of Odds      Robert Fulghum

How Do We Deal with Setbacks?      Gary Egeberg

Being Impressive      tom walsh

Is Love an Art?      Erich Fromm

Keeping It Together      Rachel Naomi Remen

from Letters to a Young Poet      Rainer Maria Rilke

Mermaids      Robert Fulghum

Positive Expectancy      Bill O'Hanlon

Pruning a Tree      Bernie Siegel

Think of What You Have      Richard Carlson

You Control Your Attitude      Jeff Keller

The Broken Pot      author unknown

Call "Time Out" and Adjust Your Course      Jeff Keller

Change Your Pace      Hilton Gregory

The Christmas Alone      tom walsh

Dealing with Disappointment      Colin Clews

Depression Is a Spiritual Issue      Frederick Zappone

Do I Really Need This?  Wants vs. Needs      Jane Mullikin

Embracing the Everyday      Susie Michelle Cortwright

Fireworks, Barney, and Santa Claus:  An Unholy Trio      Gene Curry

How Do You Handle a Bad Day?      Robert Taylor

Happiness      Bob Williams

Living with the Heart of a Child      Joe Mazzella

How to Develop a Healthy Perspective      Jeff Keller

I Can't      tom walsh

I Just Don't See It      Gail Pursell Elliott

It's Your Life to Live      tom walsh

Re-Energize Your Journal Writing      Michael Boyter

Letting Go vs. Giving Up      Louise Morganti Kaelin

An Open Letter to Limp Bizkit      tom walsh

The Power of Goalsetting      Julie Jordan Scott

The Precious Present      Spencer Johnson

Put Joy in Your Life--You're Never Too Old!      Susana Bouquet

The Rainy Days      tom walsh

Redefining Retirement      Henry Fenwick

Regrets, I Have a Few. . . .      Robert Knowlton

Sacred or Scared?      Gail Pursell Elliott

Snowy Day Gifts      Joe Mazzella

Still Don't Know What You Want to Be?      Valerie Young

A Teaching on Heaven and Hell

I Want to Be Six      Author Unknown

A Story about Ugly      Author Unknown

What's Wrong with Grown-Ups?

What's Your View?      Ray Whiting

Where I Am      tom walsh

Whose Standards?      Robert Taylor

In the Wink of an Eye      Lewis Frost

You Never Know      Helaine Iris

Your Greatest Strength      Author Unknown