The couple "retired" in 1986, when Bill was 60. He had
spent a long and rewarding career in medical technology and
administration, in Oklahoma, South Dakota, Dallas, and Maryland,
and his wife had worked alongside him. "We met working
together 45 years ago, and we've continued as a team all that
time," she says. "I keep William organized."
Their frequent moves hadn't bothered her at all: "I enjoy
traveling and meeting new people," she says. But retirement
didn't present itself as a time for relaxation for either of them.
"Nothing lives in a vacuum," Bill declares. "People
in the medical field are all interested in helping people. That's
what we wanted to do when we retired," he recalls.
They read in the newspaper about the desperate need for a clinic
in Guatemala City, and that became the first place they went to.
There they not only set up a clinic and trained nationals to run
it, they also took a mobile clinic out to remote villages two days
a week. Since then they have worked with their church, the Church
of Christ in Highland Oaks, Dallas, and with local and national
organizations such as Partners in Progress, out of Arkansas, and
International Executives Service Corps, to do similar work in many
different parts of the globe: Guatemala, Nigeria, Kenya, East
Africa, Tanzania, Lithuania, Bangladesh.
Now they are in Manitoba setting up a science department for a
small college. Every year they go to the Medical Mission Seminars
held in Dallas to find out where they might be needed next, and
often people they have worked with in the past contact them to see
if they are available.
Giving Something Back
"We both find it very exciting," they say, though
finances don't always permit them both to go. Their trips are
sometimes only partly subsidized by the groups they work for,
"but this is a great country and we want to pay something
back. After a while your finances get pretty low," Owana
explains, "so I didn't go on the last trip."
Some places have astonished them with beauty: "The Masai in
Tanzania are beautiful people, tall and slender. The women are
just gorgeous," Owana remembers. Other places have horrified
them with their disorganization or blatant corruption. But in each
place they have found enormous satisfaction in the work, with
great spiritual rewards.
This year they will have spent over six months out of the country,
and away from their grandchildren. If there is a downside to the
experience, this is it. But theirs is a close-knit family, and the
time away makes their time at home richer. What do their children
think of their travels? "Oh, they think it's cool!"
When Ed Lane was a kid in high school he wanted to become a
painter, but "everybody I knew convinced me that wasn't the
way to make a living." So instead he took to advertising.
With time he built up his own very successful advertising agency
in Phoenix, Arizona, and his wife Diane worked alongside him,
heading up his PR department. "Through the years I'd sign up
for classes or set up a studio in the spare bedroom—then a guest
would come to stay and I'd pack it all up again." Then in
1995 he and Diane decided to retire and move to Maui, while his
son took over the business.
In Maui he at last applied himself to painting with the drive he'd
brought to his work. "I wanted to become a serious painter,
not just a hobbyist but make it another career." So he set
out "to learn as much as I can, to paint as much as I can,
and sell my work — which is at least some validation of the
work!" Now he paints every day of the week, for about five
hours, at his studio about 10 minutes from home. "I'm a
really prolific painter," he laughs; "I churn them
Passion and Enthusiasm
The "churning out" is the natural result of his
passionate enthusiasm. "I can hardly wait to start painting
every day," he says. He also applies himself to getting his
work seen: he researches where there are open shows all over the
United States and submits his work. He has shown at every regional
show in Hawaii and has also been in exhibitions in Chicago, New
Jersey, Kentucky, and Texas. He painted one of the 87 pieces
selected for this year's Artists of Hawaii exhibition, chosen from
890 entries, and is represented by two galleries on Maui, two in
Honolulu, and one on the Big Island. "I have no
representation on the mainland on a permanent basis yet. I'm
trying to pursue that. And I also have an ambition to be
represented in France."
He sells regularly. His painting are now owned by people from
California, New York, and France, and when we spoke he had just
returned from a painting trip to the South of France, where he
painted "in Van Gogh's back yard!… I have no shame — I
went and painted Cezanne's mountain. I have no fear!"
He is, he says, "audacious" in his ambitions for
himself. Van Gogh and Toulouse-Lautrec, he reckons, each had
approximately 14-year careers in which they produced their
masterpieces. "I've got that many years left. They did theirs
at the beginning."
And his wife, Diane, still works beside him. Their studio is a
two-story building, and on the floor above Ed, Diane pursues her
own new career, creating clothes from silk she has hand-painted.
She works less regularly than her husband but sometimes in greater
spurts, often for 12-hour stretches. For her it's a passion that
came recently, but "it's like something suddenly hits you on
the side of your head and says ‘Okay, this is what you're going
to do with the rest of your life.' The reality is we've been
training for this all our lives," she adds. It's pent up
stuff coming out."
Up A New Career
Bud Lazare had time to chat with me after the lunch-time rush at
his Togo's and Baskin-Robbins store in the Hillhurst area of San
Diego, when he finally had a moment to sit down. He admits he and
his wife hadn't been quite prepared for the workload when they
decided to take on this new challenge, but he has no regrets.
"It's changed our lives," he says firmly.
Bud had been a chiropractor for 35 years, and his wife had been a
housewife. Then an injury disabled him and he had to give up his
clinic. "When I got back on my feet I was going crazy doing
nothing," he says. The prospect of having to work with HMOs
drove him equally crazy, so he began to look around for an
alternative, a business he could build up with his children and
leave for his grandchildren.
He spent two years investigating the franchise possibilities, and
"this looked the best on paper." The combination of the
sandwich store and ice-cream parlor struck him as a good one:
"When lunch and dinner quiet down, ice cream picks up."
The beginning was rough. "We weren't prepared for the
work," he says. "We were convinced that the franchise
group didn't want us to get through the training period. They made
our lives miserable, but out of meanness we weren't going to quit.
In hindsight they may have been correct, but we were correct too
because we wanted it enough." He had been walking with a
cane, but learned to do without it: "I couldn't have gotten
through the training otherwise."
A Family Affair
The store is a family affair; his daughter-in-law, a psychologist
who had burned out specializing in taking care of battered
children, works with him dealing with personnel. "My wife was
a housewife, never worked one day. She now works every day except
Saturday. She was very shy, but she likes being around the public.
Her friends come round and have lunch with her after the rush;
she's grandma to all the help. She's become the most outgoing
person I know, it's changed her whole personality."
For the first weeks the shop was open Bud was working from seven
in the morning until eleven at night, but now the pace is easier.
He starts at seven, doing the books, then the staff (he employs 22
people) arrive to set up. He and his wife are often able to leave
by midafternoon. He and his wife are very religious Jews and do
not work from sundown Friday until Sunday. "The first Friday
night was terrifying to me — I'm letting somebody else handle
the money! I drove down to the store and came in and the manager
said ‘Have you come to count the register?'" He laughs at
the memory; that insecurity is now long behind him. He gets
pleasure from watching his staff develop.
The clientele give him great pleasure too. "The area is
predominantly gay and senior citizens, it's a good combination.
The gay clientele are highly educated, decent incomes, very nice,
generous with their feelings to other people; they help senior
citizens. And it's nice being around young people. "It's an
interesting new life we've walked into. We'd gotten very old
before this, we'd slowed down. I didn't realize it myself. We seem
much younger now, my wife and I. Even our friends have mentioned
it. We're occupied, we're busy. Never retire! It doesn't make
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