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Not
having a goal is more to be
feared than not reaching a goal.
Robert
Schuller
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The
reason most people never reach their goals is
that they don't
define them, or ever seriously
consider them as believable or achievable.
Denis
Waitley
Goals are access
lines to the future. They allow us to run the race with the finish
line firmly established.
Emilie Barnes
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To enjoy
your goals, think of them as signposts, pointing you in a certain
direction. They give you a focus and help your energy to get
moving. The
way you go is up to you; you can get very uptight focusing only on getting
to your goal or you can relax and enjoy the entire journey, appreciating
every
unexpected bend and turn of the road, every new opportunity
for learning and feeling.
Shakti Gawain
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You have
to set the goals that are almost out of reach. If you set
a goal that is attainable without much work
or thought, you are
stuck with something below your
true talent and potential.
Steve Garvey
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If
you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you. If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you.
Whatever good things we build end up building us.
Jim
Rohn
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Goals
are simply tools to focus your energy in positive
directions; they can be
changed as your priorities
change, new ones added, and others dropped.
O.
Carl Simonton
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No wind favors those who
have no destined port.
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Not every
end is a goal. The end of a melody is not
its goal; but nevertheless, if the melody had not reached
its end it would not have reached its goal either.
Friedrich
W. Nietzsche
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It must be borne in mind that
the tragedy
of life
doesn’t lie in
not
reaching your goal. The
tragedy lies in having no goal
to
reach.
It isn’t a calamity
to die with dreams unfulfilled,
but it
is a calamity
not to dream. It is not a disaster to be unable to capture
your
ideals, but it is a disaster to have no
ideals to capture. It
is not a
disgrace not
to reach
the stars, but it is a disgrace
to have no
stars to reach for.
Benjamin Mays
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The happiest days are found in struggling
toward a goal, not in any attainment.
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If one
sets up fantasy goals, then it follows that one will experience
fantasy victories and fantasy defeats, the inevitable pendulum
swing within the world of desire. The goal of God is the reality of
yourself; you are within God, and God is within you.
A
Spiritual Warrior
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Write down
on paper your goal in life. With that down in
black and white, we can get somewhere. Few can define
their goal, much less write it. You cannot find happiness
until your goal is clear and in view.
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No matter what the competition is, I try to find
a
goal that day and better that goal.
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Know what you want to do--then do it. Make
straight
for your goal and go undefeated in spirit to the end.
Ernestine Schumann-Heink
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Goals are dreams with deadlines.
Diana Scharf Hunt
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A good goal is like a strenuous
exercise-- it makes you
stretch.
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If I had one
wish for my children, it would be that each of them
would reach for goals that have meaning for them as individuals.
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In the long
run, people hit only what they aim at.
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There is a process for creating
our goals. Often we start out with enthusiasm and
then become discouraged and unsure. We may work hard for a while but
see few
results. At times everything will seem to be coming together
perfectly, and then we
may go through a period where our dreams appear to be on hold.
Thoughts of
giving up may enter our minds. That's when we need to trust the ebb
and flow of the process.
We must resist becoming too invested in achieving our goals in some
preconceived way.
Many paths can lead to the same destination. Some minor adjustments
may be necessary.
Step back and assess. Maybe your vision isn't clear enough. Or
perhaps you are trying
to achieve too much too quickly and need to break your goals down
into smaller, more specific steps.
Sometimes it appears that things are standing still when they are actually
coming together
in an unseen way. The people who need to assist you may be on their
way and just haven't
shown up yet. Or the house you are looking for may not be on the
market one week but
will be the next. Relax for a while and put your list of goals in a
drawer for a few days
and enjoy life. This will give you the energy to refine your vision
and discover the next step.
Salle Merrill Redfield
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The goal
of all civilization, all religious thought, and all that
sort of thing is simply to have a good time. But people get
so solemn over the process that they forget the end.
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Goals
give direction to our lives. We need to know who we are
and where
we want to go. But the trip itself, the steps we
travel, offer us daily
satisfaction moment by moment--fulfillment, if we'd but realize it. Too
often we keep our
sights on the goal's completion, rather than the
process--the
day-to-day living that makes the completion possible.
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The big
secret in life is that there is no big secret. Whatever
your goal, you can get there if you're willing to work.
Oprah
Winfrey
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The
important thing
is to strive towards
a goal which is not
immediately visible.
That goal is not
the concern of
the mind, but of
the spirit.
Antoine
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The danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim
too high and falling short,
but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.
Michelangelo Buonarrati (attributed)
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Because our goals are not lofty but
illusory,
our problems are not difficult, but nonsensical.
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To experience the satisfaction and
enjoyment of success in life, a definitive goal
is essential. Many people fail at this vital point. The goal
must be definite and specific,
not in any sense vague or fuzzy. And to prove attainable, its image
needs to be
sharpened and resharpened continually, so that it stands out vividly in
your thoughts.
You must know, at all times, precisely and for certain what it is you want
to accomplish
and achieve. Strong and organized purposefulness toward a definite
objective
will focus your powers into a strong motivation in attainment of your
goal.
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When goals go, meaning goes.
When meaning goes, purpose goes.
When purpose goes, life goes dead on our hands.
Carl Jung |
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The
victory of success is half won when one gains the habit of setting
goals and achieving them. Even the most tedious chore will become
endurable as you parade through each day convinced that each task,
no matter how menial or boring, brings you closer to achieving your
dreams.
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Before you begin a
thing, remind yourself that difficulties and delays
quite impossible
to foresee are ahead. . . . You can only see one thing
clearly and
that is your goal. Form a mental vision of that
and cling to
it through thick and thin.
Kathleen Norris
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When we
have no goal, or when our vision of the goal is obscured,
we may lose our sense of purpose. Even when we've prepared
ourselves well and have an aptitude for a given activity, poorly
directed efforts can rob us of vital energy. We can spend a great
deal of our time, money, and other resources running around in
circles. Unless we create specific goals that match our purpose
in life and unless we keep a clear vision of these goals,
we may eventually falter and fail.
John Marks Templeton
Worldwide Laws of Life
Everyone needs dreams and a goal in order to live life fully
and satisfactorily. If we don't have a specific goal in mind
or we don't know where we want to go, we may be likely to
end up in places not of our choosing. Establishing goals, along
with guidelines on how to achieve them, helps to keep us
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The
following guidelines may help you to achieve your goal:
1. Think of your goal not as some vague and nebulous idea
but in clear and specific terms.
2. Outline your goal in writing in detail.
3. Keep your goal in the forefront of your mind by reviewing
it almost every day.
4. Learn everything you can that relates to your goal.
5. Be willing to work as hard as you can toward achieving
your goal when the opportunity comes along.
6. Give the universe an opportunity to assist in achieving
your goal by affirming, "This or something better!"
7. Stay open to receive all possibilities for achieving your
goal.
Remember, "failing to plan is planning to fail."
Just as a road map is an indispensable tool for a trip, a plan is
an indispensable tool when you travel the journey of life toward
your goals. Follow your plan to a more successful life!
John Marks
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"When
we do not know what harbor we are making for," the Roman
philosopher Seneca wrote, "no wind is the right wind."
Persons have
vision only when they have a dream that drives them on.
Joan Chittister
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Each season
I tell the Roughriders that failure is achieving all your goals--it
means you didn't aim high enough. When you're setting goals, I
explain,
there's a tremendous risk that you'll aim too low. To achieve your
potential,
you need to be out of your comfort zone, forcing yourself to achieve
things
you didn't know you could do. That's how you improve.
Bill Resler
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You must
have long-range goals to keep you
from being frustrated by short-range failure.
George H. Bender
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It is important to focus your attention effectively.
In other words, don't
waste your creative energy.
Without deliberate focus, you're spreading
your attention
around randomly, achieving no real benefit for
yourself.
Keep your attention focused on something
positive,
and good things begin to happen.
This is the real reason for goal setting. It's the
mental focus that helps
you achieve your goals. Your
focus is actually strengthening the thoughtform
that you
have expressed as your goal. Unfortunately, many of
us have been
oriented to the pass-fail aspect of goal
setting, and so, to avoid failure, we
don't set
goals. Yes, the concept of pass-fail is a belief--a
very
strong shared one.
If there is something in your life that you want, keep
your attention focused
on that goal. if things show
up--and they will--that seem to get in the way,
don't
focus on them. Handle them, but stay focused on your
goal. It's when
you focus on the obstacles that you
tend to give up. Think about what we have
already
discussed. What happens when you focus on the
obstacles? Right--your
focus just strengthens the
thoughtforms related to the obstacle.
Stay focused
on the goal.
You might have a goal that you believe can be achieved
only if you have a
certain amount of money. Instead
of focusing on the goal, you focus on the
fact that you
don't have enough money. What gets strengthened is
the
thoughtform for not having enough money. Maybe
there is a way to achieve
the goal without money. By
not focusing on the goal, you restrict possibilities,
of
which you may not be aware, from occurring.
Bruce I. Doyle III
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Set goals that don't feel all that easy, that challenge
you, stimulate you,
and give you a chance to stretch and push yourself.
That is where the power of growth lies.
Nathaniel Branden
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A
goal without a plan is just a wish.
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry |
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The goal can
be large or small, it can be far away or right next
door; he goes in search of it with respect and honor. He knows
what each step means and how much it cost in effort, training,
and intuition.
He focuses not just on the goal to be reached, but on
everything
happening around him. He often has to stop because his strength
fails him.
At such moments, Love appears and says: "You think
you're
heading toward a specific point, but the whole justification for
the goal's existence lies in your love for it. Rest a little, but as
soon as you can, get up and carry on. Because ever since your
goal found out that you were traveling toward it, it has been
running to meet you."
Paulo Coelho
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