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Cultivating
a generous spirit starts with
mindfulness.
Mindfulness, simply stated,
means paying attention to what is actually
happening; it's about what is really going on.
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You
can't keep saying and doing the same things and expect
better results. When you see your behavior clearly you can frame new
responses. There are many techniques for increasing
self-awareness. Most involve mindfulness-- observing what's happening in the present
moment: your thoughts, emotions, and bodily
sensations.
Joan
Duncan Oliver
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If my happiness at this moment consists
largely in reviewing happy memories and
expectations, I am but dimly aware of this present. I
shall still be dimly aware of
the present when the good things that I have been expecting
come to pass. For I shall have formed a habit of looking behind and ahead,
making it difficult
for me to attend to the here and now. If, then, my
awareness of the past
and future makes me less aware of the present, I must begin
to wonder whether I am actually living in the real world.
Alan Watts
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Mindfulness
can be summed up in two words: pay attention. Once you notice what you’re doing, you have the power to
change it.
Michelle
Burford
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Mindfulness
is being aware of yourself, others, and your surroundings
in the moment. When consciously and kindly focusing
awareness on life
as it unfolds minute by precious minute, you are better able
to savor
each experience. Also, being closely attentive gives
you the opportunity
to
change unwise or painful feelings and responses
quickly. In fact, being truly
present in a mindful way is an excellent stress reducer and,
because
of that, can be seen as consciousness conditioning,
a strengthening
workout for body, mind, heart, and spirit.
Sue
Patton Thoele
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People
are at their most mindful when they are at play. If we
find
ways of enjoying our work blurring the lines between
work and play the gains will be greater.
Ellen
Langer
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Mindfulness
makes our eyes, our heart, our non-toothache, the moon,
and
the trees
deep and beautiful. And when we touch our suffering
with mindfulness, we begin
to transform it. Mindfulness is like a mother
holding
her baby in her arms and caring
for her baby’s pain. When our
pain is held by
mindfulness it loses some of its strength. . . .
Mindfulness
recognizes what is there, and concentration
allows you to be deeply
present with whatever it is. Concentration is the
ground of happiness.
If you live twenty-four hours a day in mindfulness
and
concentration, one day is a lot.
Thich
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Mindfulness
means
paying attention
in a particular way;
on purpose,
in the present moment,
and nonjudgmentally.
Jon
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Try to be mindful,
and let things take their natural course. Then your mind
will
become still in any surroundings, like a clear forest pool.
All kinds
of wonderful, rare animals will come to drink at the pool,
and you will
clearly see the nature of all things. You will see many
strange and
wonderful things come and go, but you will be still.
Ajahn Chah
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Mindfulness
is not just a word or a discourse by the Buddha, but a
meaningful state of mind. It means we have to be here now,
in this
very moment, and we have to know what is happening
internally and
externally. It means being alert to our motives and learning
to change
unwholesome thoughts and emotions into wholesome ones.
Mindfulness is a mental activity that in due course
eliminates all suffering.
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Mindfulness of oneself
cultivates wisdom.
Mindfulness of others cultivates compassion.
Stonepeace
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Mindfulness
is knowing what you are experiencing while you are
experiencing it. It is a moment-to-moment awareness,
has the
quality of being in the now, a sense of freedom, of
perspective,
of being connected, not judging.
Guy Armstrong
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Mindfulness is
a way of being present: paying attention to and
accepting what is happening in our lives. It helps us
to be aware
of and step away from our automatic and habitual reactions
to our everyday experiences.
Elizabeth Thornton
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Mindfulness
is a quality that's always there. It's an illusion
that there's
a meditation and post-meditation period, which I always find
amusing,
because you're either mindful or you're not.
Richard Gere
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Do
we ever question the need to brush our teeth? Or say,
"today I do not have
time for brushing teeth?" Can we go a week
without brushing? What that would
be like? Please imagine it right now. How will
the mouth and teeth feel? Do we
believe if we brush teeth we will never need a dentist?
And how about putting in
a comparable amount of time, energy and regular practice to
keep the mind clear,
fresh, and refreshed? Or regularly brushing and
clearing the mind from harmful
residue? I view Mindfulness as a way of maintaining
mental hygiene the same way
brushing is needed for dental hygiene. And, from time
to time, we may even
need professional help for best results.
Rezvan
Ameli
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The
most precious gift we can offer others is our presence.
When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom
like flowers.
Thich
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Was
there ever a time when you felt suddenly alive? It was
like the doors
of the world opened for a minute and you could see directly
into life.
You were able to touch life directly and were not lost in
your fears
and worries. This experience may not have been during
a big event like
performing in a play or playing in a championship game; it
may have been while
walking in the woods or talking to a friend. All of a
sudden you felt alive, awake.
This quality of waking up, or penetrating into life, we
could call mindfulness.
Mindfulness simply means being aware, being present.
When you are breathing
and know that you are breathing, that is mindfulness of
breathing.
Soren
Gordhamer
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Living
mindlessly . . . takes an enormous toll. What we get
from each
moment
depends on the attention we give it, and the quality of our
experience reflects the quality of our awareness.
Roger
Walsh
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Mindfulness
is the quality of fullness of attention, immediacy,
non-distraction. In that sense, it is the key to life.
Sharon Salzberg |
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Life is a
dance. Mindfulness is witnessing that dance.
Amit Ray |
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A
few years ago, I sat on my son's bedroom floor folding some
baby clothes
that he'd outgrown. I could feel the sadness and
regret creeping in, but
I wanted so badly to feel OK about the passage of
time. I quickened my pace
to push the pain away. I wanted the moment to be
over. Suddenly, though,
I looked up and notices a very blue sky staring down through
the window. Just
feel it, I said to myself, as I slowed down, trying to focus
on the task in front of me.
I held a shirt close to my face and inhaled as deeply as I
could. My heart seemed to
crack and fill up at the same time as feelings of hope and
loss collided right there in
a pile of little boy's old clothes. When I finally got
up to leave the room, I wasn't
sad anymore. Instead, I thought about the miraculous
growth of a child, whose
shirt size is less about loss and more about the gift of
life itself.
I
don't know if you can live inside each and every
moment. But when you can, try
to stop, look, and listen long enough to be right where you
are, not in your past,
not in your future. Just right in the middle of a
split second in time.
Leslie
Levine
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I am learning slowly to bring my
crazy pinball-machine mind back to this
place of friendly detachment toward myself, so I can look
out at the world
and see all those other things with respect. Try
looking at your mind as a
wayward puppy that you are trying to paper train. You
don’t drop-kick
a puppy into the neighbor’s yard every time it piddles on
the floor. You
just keep bringing it back to the newspaper. So I keep
trying gently to
bring my mind back to what is really there to be seen, maybe
to be seen and noted with a kind of reverence.
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While
washing the dishes one should only be washing the dishes,
which means
one should be completely aware of the fact that one is
washing the dishes.
At first glance, that might seem a little silly. Why
put so much stress on a simple
thing? But that’s precisely the point. The
fact that I am standing there and washing
these bowls is a wondrous reality. I am completely
myself, following my breath,
conscious of my presence, and conscious of my thoughts and
actions. There’s
no way I can be tossed around mindlessly like a bottle
slapped
here and there on the waves.
Thich
Nhat Hanh
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Mindfulness
is simply being aware of what is happening right now
without wishing it were different; enjoying the pleasant
without
holding on when it changes (which it will); being with the
unpleasant
without fearing it will always be this way (which it won't).
James Baraz |
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I'm
a simple person; I belong to an era different from the one
you
belong to: if something's white, I say it's white; if
it's black, I say
black. The ability to resolve problems comes from
everyday
experience, from seeing things as they really are and not
the way
someone else says they should be. As soon as we begin
to jettison
the ballast, to eliminate whatever doesn't belong to us,
whatever
comes from outside, we're already on the right track.
Susanna Tamaro
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Mindfulness
practice means that we commit fully in each moment to be
present; inviting ourselves to interface with this moment in
full awareness,
with the intention to embody as best we can an orientation
of calmness,
mindfulness, and equanimity right here and right now.
Jon Kabat-Zinn
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When we perform an act mindfully--be it
meditating, vacuuming
or playing Scrabble
with a child--we
nourish ourselves, as well.
Rather than scattering our
concentration
on a dozen things at
once, we focus. We
slow down. We give ourselves time to calm
down from
the inside out and the luxury of saying: Nothing is
more important right
now than this moment, this deed. We
may not get as much done by day's end, but
we can feel more
peaceful and satisfied with the work itself. That's a
good way
to think of it: Mindfulness is quality time
for the soul.
Shana Aborn
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Today, walking along the beach, I spotted a rock,
slick
and shiny.
It attracted my attention, and I picked it up. But on closer inspection
it turned out to be shiny because
it was wet. As it dried, the rock
became ordinary.
It was
just a rock. I was disappointed at first, and
I almost
threw
it away. But the rock had been wonderfully smoothed
by
the sand and the waves. Although it was merely a plain
rock
ground smooth by the elements, it turned out to be worth
keeping,
even treasuring.
I found another rock as I walked the beach
today. It, too,
had been
ground down and polished by reality. It had no
sharp edges
anymore. When I walk too fast I miss these
small,
smooth rocks
that so fascinate me. They are my cousins,
somehow, models of what
I would like to become. But here I am now.
David K. Reynolds
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Willingly
greeting our fears and weaknesses with openness,
acceptance,
and respect is one of the hardest tasks
mindfulness asks of us and one
of the most freeing
practices we can undertake. Sitting in stillness
with
our sorrow and shame, our fear and judgment laid
bare is an act of courage.
Sue
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Many people pass through
these things each day of their lives on their way to
work, or driving in the country, and never notice the birds,
or the clouds
floating across the sky, or the flowers by the
roadside. They are too
preoccupied with business matters or with personal problems
to notice
anything outside themselves. They travel through life
as if it were a dark
tunnel. This is unfortunate.
Joseph F. Girzone
Never Alone
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Carefully
observe the natural laws in operation in the world around
you, and live by them.
From following them, you will learn the morality
of modesty, moderation, compassion, and consideration (not
just one
society’s rules and regulations), the wisdom of seeing
things as they
are (not of merely collecting “facts” about them), and
the happiness of
being in harmony with the Way (which has nothing to do with
self-
righteous “spiritual” obsessions and fanaticism).
And you will live
lightly, spontaneously, and effortlessly.
Benjamin
Hoff
The Te of Piglet
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Mindfulness teachers explain that when a thought arises, one can notice it rather than attaching to it, bringing one's attention back to the present moment rather than following that thought chain into a story about reality. The practice of mindfulness is about being in and observing reality rather than thinking about reality—like being a watcher of events in the present, both inside and outside.
Chris Niebauer
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From
the porch one observes the simple rhythms of daily
life: the
neighbor setting out the garbage in the
early morning, the woman
from the next street who
regularly walks her little dog just after
suppertime, the
school-age boys exercising prowess in bicycling,
the
elderly widow receiving a rare visit from an in-law, the
business-
like drivers of passing cars whose faces mirror
their intent
to get where they are going.
On
the porch one hears the sounds that surround us--the
worried
chirping of jays hovering over a nest, the cries
of a waking baby
across the street, the approaching bell
of the ice cream man's truck,
distant sirens from the
city, the neighborhood dogs whose resonant
barks carry
airborne canine conversations well over
the barrier of
fenced-in yards.
Seated
upon the porch one finds it unnecessary to comment upon or
analyze what one sees and hears. It is enough that
it is. Being is not
something to be taken for
granted or overlooked but something to be
breathed in and
celebrated with sweet contentment and a grateful heart.
Wendy
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Mindfulness
is the aware, balanced acceptance of the present
experience. It isn't more complicated than that.
It is opening to
or receiving the present moment, pleasant or unpleasant,
just as
it is, without either clinging to it or rejecting it.
Sylvia
Boorstein
It's
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Mindfulness
in its most general sense is about waking up from a life
on automatic, and being sensitive to novelty in our everyday
experience.
Daniel J. Siegel |
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One way to open your eyes is to ask yourself,
"What if I had
never seen this before? What if I knew I would never see it
again?
Rachel Carson |
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