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of the greatest obstacles to living life fully is money. While
happiness and contentment definitely can't be bought, it's also true
that a lack of money can have devastating effects on anyone, and not
having sufficient money can cause extreme levels of stress, marital
problems, problems with the rest of the family, work problems, and
so much more. How many people aren't living full lives because
they have to work two or even three jobs just to make ends
meet? How many people are miserable because they don't feel
that they're providing their children with enough of the basics, or
any of the luxuries of life?
As
the societies of the world become more and more materialistic, it's
more and more common that people base their happiness on
possessions. How many possessions, what brand names we have,
or how expensive they are--all become very important to us because
we're trying to win the approval and respect of other people.
This materialism, though, often leads us to spend more money than we
can truly afford, and we often end up finding ourselves in debt,
making large payments on credit cards, not having enough money to do
anything today because it all went to make payments. So what
do we do? We charge something else today, thus ensuring our
future lack of financial security.
The
arguments start when one spouse buys something that the other spouse
knows they can't afford, or when someone's not able to buy new
clothes for their children, or when payments are being made late and
the late charges are piling up or the creditors are calling.
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The stress comes when you look at a pile of bills and have no idea
where the money's going to come from to pay them. The despair
takes over when you start to feel that you're trapped in an
inescapable abyss that's eating you alive.
Escape
from this sort of situation may look impossible, but it's not.
It takes time and patience, and you have to realize that from the
start, but it is possible to stabilize your financial
situation. There are a number of steps that you can take to
"fix" your finances, but each step takes a bit of work,
self-discipline, and dedication if you're going to be successful in
your attempts to reach financial stability.
1.
Knowledge. More than anything else, you need to know your
financial situation intimately. You need to know exactly what
you owe to whom, and how much you have to pay each month in order to
meet your obligations. You simply won't make any progress if
you allow your situation to be unclear and confused. You also
need to know exactly how much money is coming in, and if the amount
going out is higher than the amount coming in, then something has to
change.
2.
A plan. Once you know your financial situation, you need a
plan. What are you going to do in order to lower monthly
bills? How are you going to spend less, and how are you going
to get more money coming in? Some people take a part-time job
and use ALL of the money from that job to pay off debt. Others
search out help from a debt counseling service, where they can help
you to lower the payments that you have. Most end up having to
adjust their spending habits, buying supermarket brands which are
just as good as the brand-name products, or making lunches for their
kids instead of buying Lunchables™ and other expensive
products. Do you really need those lottery tickets? We
all have to make choices when we're trying to stabilize our
financial situations.
3.
Self-discipline. Once the plan's in place, stick to it, no
matter what. That doesn't mean that you have to stop living
life--it means that you're doing with less for a while in order to
ensure a future that's much less stressful and harmful than the
present. Make sure that an evening out for dinner every other
week is in the plan, or even a Saturday morning out for breakfast or
a nice weekend lunch out--it's cheaper and you tend to get more food
for your money at breakfast and lunch. Plan this because your
goal here isn't to make yourself miserable by depriving yourself,
but to improve your situation by sticking to a financial plan.
A day out every once in a while helps to raise your spirits so that
you can deal with your struggles more easily.
4.
Education. Learn. And don't just learn about
money--learn about yourself and your attitudes and your perspective,
and find out which parts of yourself may be contributing to
financial problems. Are you spending too much on your car
because you feel insecure and you want acceptance from certain
people? Are you not looking for a better-paying job because
you lack confidence in your own abilities? The fear of success
holds many people back. Learn how to make more money with the
resources available to you now--what skills and abilities do you
have that will help you to earn money in different ways? We
have many such resources available on our tapes
page, and they're all very good, very educational programs that have
helped many, many people to reach financial independence, even
wealth.
5.
Action. Once you learn, act on it. Nothing is ever
accomplished without action. Some things may happen, but
that's not an accomplishment. Your goal is financial stability
or affluence, and one of the beauties of the world of today is that
such a financial situation is available to all of us--we just have
to act and work on our plans.
The
pain of financial problems is one that never goes away as long as
the problems are there. If you begin to work on your problems
systematically, though, you'll find a sense of peace and
satisfaction settling down on you like a nice warm blanket on a cold
and rainy day, for you know that no matter how bad the situation
looks, at least you're doing what you can to fix it. It takes
patience and discipline, and it often takes asking someone else for
help, such as a debt counseling service, but the action you take now
can help you to pull out of the desperation you feel, and it can
ensure a future free from the awful feelings that your present
situation is causing. That vacation that you can't take now
may be easy to do three or four years from now, and you may be
ensuring your children's college educations if you take control
now. The benefits are well worth the work.
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It's Easy to Earn Money
Bob Proctor
There is a very real possibility that everything you and I
have been taught about how to earn money is so far from the
truth that it's almost comical. Earning money has nothing to
do with age, formal education, gender or geography. It has
nothing to do with past experience or your formal years of
education or your level of intellect. Check it out ... there
are individuals who are functionally illiterate who have
become multi-millionaires, while there are others who are
absolutely brilliant and they are broke. Virtually anyone
can be taught how to earn millions of dollars and yet the
sad truth is that 97 out of every 100 people are born, live
their entire lives, and die without ever learning how to
earn money. To perpetuate this ridiculous problem, their
ignorance is passed along from one generation to the next.
Our school system has been designed as an environment to
enlighten young minds, to replace ignorance with
understanding and thereby improve the quality of life. Our
educational system has obviously been successful in many
areas. However, it has woefully neglected one important
subject, "How to Earn Money." You can earn a
doctorate degree in economics and have little or no
knowledge of how to earn money. A lack of understanding in
this area is the cause of numerous unwanted and unnecessary
problems, since money is the medium of exchange that is used
worldwide for other people's products and services.
There has always been a small, select group, approximately
3% of our population, who clearly understand that prosperity
consciousness is the primary cause of wealth and their
prosperity consciousness, like ignorance, is also passed
down from one generation to the next.
Let's look at "money." What is it? Money is a
reward you receive for the service you render. The more
valuable the service, the greater the reward. Thinking of
ways we can be of greater service will not only help us earn
more money, it will also enable us to grow intellectually
and spiritually.
Money Is An Idea. The paper you fold and place in your purse
or pocket is not money. It is paper with ink on it. It
represents money, but it is not money. Money is an idea. The
earning of money has nothing to do with the paper stuff. It
has to do with consciousness.
I am aware there are books that instruct you on how to
manipulate the market, stocks and people... they might even
help you get money. But, let me caution you... when there is
no spiritual growth... there is no spiritual strength...
there is no lasting happiness... and, there is no real or
lasting wealth.
To accumulate wealth, a person must become very comfortable
with the idea of money. That may sound strange, however most
people are not comfortable with the idea of money, which is
why they do not have any. The cause of poverty is poverty
consciousness. A poverty consciousness will cause a person
to see, hear, smell, think and feel ... lack and limitation.
The late Mike Todd said, "Being broke is a temporary
situation. Being poor is a mental state."
He was correct. There are wealthy people who lose every cent
they have through a series of mistakes in judgment ... but
that does not make them poor. They will have it all back in
a short time because of their prosperity consciousness.
If you have any question in your mind regarding your level
of consciousness with respect to money, be very honest with
yourself and look at your results. Study the patterns in
your life.
If you want to improve your financial position in life,
focus your attention on creating a higher level of
prosperity consciousness. Begin by preparing a powerful,
positive affirmation and fuel it with emotion. When you do
this, you are depositing this creative energy in the
treasury of your sub-conscious mind. And, by repeating this
process over and over and over again every day, it will
begin to alter your conditioning and mentally move you in
the direction you want to go. Write it out, read it, feel
it, and let it take hold of your mind.
How much money do you want? Saying you want more is not good
enough. Five dollars is more. How much more? Decide on a
figure. Be specific. You will not seriously want more money
than you are capable of earning... however, you would be
wise to remember, you must earn it.
There Are Three Income Earning Strategies
Trading time for money - By far the worst of the three
income earning strategies, it is employed by approximately
96% of our population - doctors, lawyers, accountants,
laborers, etc. There is an inherent problem with this
strategy - saturation. You run out of time. If a person
accumulates any degree of wealth employing this strategy, it
will be at the expense of a life. They compromise on the car
they drive, the house they live in, the clothes they choose
and the vacations they take. They rarely, if ever, get what
they want.
Investing money to earn money - This strategy is used by
approximately 3% of the population. The number is small for
the obvious reason - very few people have any money to
invest. Many people who effectively employ this strategy
follow the advice of a trusted, knowledgeable advisor.
Leveraging yourself to earn money - This is where you
multiply your time through the efforts of others by setting
up Multiple Sources of Income (MSI). This is, without
question, the very best way to increase your earnings. Make
a decision to have many sources of income; it's the strategy
that wealthy people have used dating clear back to the
ancient Babylonians. Unfortunately, this strategy is only
used by approximately 1% of our population, yet that 1%
earns approximately 96% of all the money that is earned! You
are only a decision away from membership.
Once you determine how much money you want to earn, write it
down on a sheet of paper in large figures. Look at the
number with the dollar sign beside it and tell yourself over
and over again:
That Amount of Money is an Effect.
It Represents a Reward that I Want to Receive.
What Service Can I Render that Would be Deserving of that
Reward?
You can take the total figure and divide it into multiple
parts. Each part would represent a source of income. Each
source of income represents a separate reward that you would
receive for a service you would render.
Work on one source of income at a time; each one can become
an exciting part of your life. What you are actually doing
is thinking of different ways you can be of service to
others.
Think of how you can do whatever you do - more effectively.
Think of how you can improve the quality and quantity of
service you render.
Think of how you can help people in a greater way.
Money is the ultimate servant. The more you earn, the more
you can help others.
For 40 years, Bob Proctor has focused his entire life and
agenda around helping people create lives of prosperity,
rewarding relationships and spiritual awareness.
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