giving 2 - generosity
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One
must be poor to know
the luxury of giving.
George Eliot |
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Do
not inflict your will. Just give love. The soul
will take that love and put it where it can best
be used.
Emmanuel
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I
expect to pass through this world but once. Any good
therefore that I can do,
or any kindness that I can show
to a fellow creature, let me do it now.
Let me not defer
or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
Stephen
Grellet
(also attributed to William Penn)
We all should give what
we have decided in our hearts to give,
not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a
cheerful giver.
2 Corinthians 9:7
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The essential difference
between the unhappy, neurotic type person
and the happy, normal person is the difference between get and give.
The unhappy person is concerned with: the world is against me,
what's
in it for me, what are people doing to me, and so forth. When
your
central theme in life is getting, you usually do get headaches.
But the
happy person is looking toward what he or she can do, what they
can give, what they can accomplish.
Joe D. Batten and Leonard C. Hudson
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Cheerful givers
do not count the cost of what they give. Their hearts are set
on pleasing and cheering
the person to whom the
gift is given.
Julian
of Norwich
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We make a living by what we
get,
but we make a life by what we give.
Winston Churchill |
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Thou that has given so much to me,
Give one thing more--a grateful heart;
Not thankful when it pleaseth me,
As if thy blessings had spare days;
But such a heart, whose pulse may be
Thy praise.
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But
what parent can tell when some . . . fragmentary gift of
knowledge or
wisdom
will enrich her children's lives? Or
how a small seed of information
passed from one generation
to another may generate a new science,
a new industry--a
seed which neither the giver nor the receiver
can truly
evaluate at the time.
Helena Rubinstein
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Of all the
dear sights in the
world,
nothing
is so beautiful as
children
when they
are
giving
something. Any small thing they
give.
Children give the world
to you. They open
the world
to you
as if it were a book you'd
never
been able to read. But when a
gift
must be found, it is
always
some absurd
little
thing,
passed on crooked. . .
an
angel
looking like a
clown. Children have so
little
that they
can give,
because
they
never
know they
have given you everything.
Margaret Lee
Runbeck
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The
Golden Ladder of Giving
1. To give reluctantly, the gift of the hand, but not of
the heart.
2. To give cheerfully, but not in proportion to need.
3. To give cheerfully and proportionately, but not until
solicited.
4. To give cheerfully, proportionately, and unsolicited,
but to put the gift
into the poor person's hand, thus
creating shame.
5. To give in such a way that the distressed may know
their benefactor,
without being known to him or her.
6. To know the objects of our bounty, but remain unknown
to them.
7. To give so that the benefactor may not know those whom
he has relieved,
and they shall not know him.
8. To prevent poverty by teaching a trade, setting a person up in business,
or in some other way preventing the need
of charity.
Maimonides |
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I have
held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all;
but whatever I have placed in God's hands, that I still
possess.
Martin
Luther
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One
has made at least a start on discovering the meaning of
human life
when one plants shade trees under which one
knows
full well one will never sit.
Elton Trueblood |
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Not what we give, but
what we share,--
For the gift without the giver is bare;
Who gives himself with his alms feeds three,--
Himself, his hungering neighbor, and me.
James Russell Lowell |
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As Coleridge said,
"We receive but what we give." The happy life
is a life
of continual generosity in which we go out to
meet and acclaim the world.
Gerald Brenan
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If all my
pain and all my tears,
And all that I have learned throughout the years
Could make one perfect song
To lift some fallen head
To light some darkened mind,
I should feel that not in vain
I served mankind.
Marguerite Few |
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Love grows through
giving. Fear makes us afraid to give. What are
you able to give to others or to your community? What have you
been able to give in the past 24 hours? To whom did you give it?
Jennifer James |
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There
are those who give little of the much they have--and they
give it
for recognition and their hidden desire makes
their gifts unwholesome.
And there are those who have little and give it all.
There are those believers in life and the bounty of life,
and their coffer is never empty.
There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their
reward.
And there are those who give with pain, and that pain is
their baptism.
And there are those who give and know not pain in giving,
nor do they seek joy, nor give with mindfulness of virtue;
They give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its
fragrance into space.
Through the hands of such as these God speaks,
and from
behind their eyes He smiles upon the earth.
Khalil Gibran
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Give what you have. To someone else
it may be better than you dare to think.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
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Behold!
I do not give lectures on a little
charity.
When I give, I give myself.
Walt Whitman |
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Simply give others a bit of yourself;
a thoughtful act, a helpful
idea,
a word of appreciation,
a lift over a rough spot,
a sense
of understanding, a
timely suggestion. You take something
out of your mind,
garnished in kindness out of your heart,
and put it into
the other person's mind and heart.
Charles H. Burr |
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To give and then not
feel that one has given
is the very best of all ways of
giving.
Max Beerbohm |
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Sometimes it seems to me
that in this absurdly random life
there is some inherent justice in
the outcome of personal relationships.
In the long run, we get
no more than we have been willing to give.
Sheldon Kopp
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They
serve best who give most of themselves. Self is forgotten
by the
one who serves,
for such a one rejoices to see
success coming
to
others through his or her efforts.
James
Cash Penney
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Receiving
and giving are opposite energies that are inextricably linked together
in the natural flow of life, like inhaling and exhaling.
If one aspect of that cycle
doesn't function, the entire cycle ceases to function and the life
force cannot
move freely. If you can't
inhale, you will soon have nothing to exhale,
and before long, your body will be unable to continue living.
Shakti
Gawain
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The
measure of life, after all, is not its duration, but its donation.
Peter Marshall
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Fill yourselves first and then only will you be
able to give to others.
Augustine of Hippo |
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You
can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving.
Amy Carmichael |
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A
handful of pine-seed will cover mountains with the green majesty
of forest. I too will set my face to the wind and
throw my
handful of seed on high.
Fiona
MacLeod
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The
kindness of the woman with food came back to him, and
that of Martina. They had offered him comfort and shelter, even
when he was afraid of taking them, and in accepting he had learned
something new. It was as much of a gift to receive as it was to
give,
requiring as it did both courage and humility.
Rachel Joyce
The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry |
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No person has ever been honored for what he or she
received.
Honor is our reward when we give.
Calvin Coolidge
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What
are we going to get out of life? This can understandably be
a question of fundamental importance to us. We begin with
certain
basic needs and desires. It is important to have a comfortable
home, plenty of food, a meaningful and well-paying job, comfort,
companionship, and joy. However, many of us have not fully
realized a simple, basic principle: for our receiving to take
place,
we must first give. Giving and receiving are two
aspects of the same law of life.
John Marks Templeton
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Years ago I was
practicing meditation in India. Anybody who spends any
time at all in India must come to terms with the countless
number of people begging. It is just part of the reality
there, and one is in relationship to it one way or
another. I was in the bazaar one day buying some
fruit. There were a lot of beggars around, and one
little boy was holding out his hand. He looked hungry,
so I took one of the oranges I had bought and gave it to
him. It felt good to respond to him. But he just
took the orange and walked away. Not a smile, not a nod,
not a thank-you, nothing. Only when he did that, only in
the absence of a response, did I see clearly that some part of
my mind, some part of my generosity, some part of my motive
had wanted an acknowledgement. I had not been expecting
effusive thanks for the orange, but I had wanted
something. And this child just took the orange and
walked away.
Joseph Goldstein
Transforming the Mind, Healing the World |
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Those
who think they have nothing to give should remember that
they can always give themselves, and that they can always render
some kind of service even if it be nothing more than a few words of
cheer.
Lowell Fillmore |
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Some
people give time, some money, some their skills and connections;
some literally give their blood. . . but everyone has something to
give.
Barbara Bush |
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It is necessary to
give freely if we are to receive freely. The law of
receiving includes giving. The knowledge that substance is
omnipresent and that people cannot, therefore, impoverish themselves
by giving (but rather will increase their supply) will enable us to
give
freely and cheerfully.
Charles Fillmore
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Do not be selfish, at least with the things that you can spare.
Do not
hoard them, thinking that you may want them later. You can make an
infinitely greater investment, in your own character, in satisfaction and
happiness, by giving them away than by keeping them, in anticipation
of some future contingency that will never arise. You may not be as
magnanimous as you ought to be. Giving will soften your heart and
open a little wider the door of your generosity.
Orison Swett
Marden
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Do not wait for acts of love, generosity, or kindness to be returned to you.
If you sit around expecting favors to come back, you miss the point of giving.
The act of giving blesses you with the experience of prosperity at the moment
you give. What comes later, or does not come, is not worth thinking or
worrying about. There are greater gifts to be counted.
Alan Cohen
The Tao Made
Easy
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giving 2 - generosity
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We cannot give what we do not have. We cannot
bring peace to the
world if we ourselves are not peaceful. We cannot bring love to
the world
if we ourselves are not loving. Our true gift to ourselves and
others lies not
in what we have but in who we are.
Marianne
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Blessed
are those who can give without remembering
and take
without forgetting.
Elizabeth Bibesco |
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The parable of
the talents is a good analogy of what happens
when we give. When we merely try to hold on to what is given
or entrusted to us, life may seem to take away even that. But
when we choose to use what life has given us, the return of
abundance can include friendship, companionship, financial
blessings, homes, transportation, and security in wonderful
ways. The universe holds nothing back from the one
who lovingly and sincerely gives.
John Marks
Templeton
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Why you were born and
why you are living depend entirely on what you
are getting out of this world and what you are giving to it. I
cannot prove
that this is a balance of mathematical perfection, but my own
observation
of life leads me to the conclusion that there is a very real
friendship, both
quantitatively and qualitatively, between what you contribute
and what you get out of life.
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Under
the law of compensation there is no such thing as getting something
for
nothing. We must give full measure for all that we receive at
some time. Every
day is a day of judgment in which the balance between giving and
receiving is
struck. Every instant of time, the state of mind, body, and
circumstance
shows
just where we stand, just how well or how poorly we
have observed the
spirit of the law.
Georgiana Tree West
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One always receiving, never giving, is like a
stagnant pool, in which
whatever flows remains, whatever remains corrupts.
John A. James |
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You must give if you want to
receive. Let the center of your being be
one of giving, giving, giving. You can't give too much,
and you will discover you cannot give without receiving.
Peace Pilgrim |
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The
real test of a person is not: How much has he or she got?
The measure
of a person is: How much does he or she
give that he or she can
afford to give?
Fred Van Amburgh |
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The
soul lives forever by giving, not receiving. This is the grand
paradox.
You get most by giving most. Conversely, by receiving much you
impoverish
yourself. By selfish accumulation you become bankrupt.
Julian P. Johnson |
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The manner of giving is worth more than the
gift.
Pierre Corneille
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Creative
Giving
Wilferd A. Peterson
These
words from Albert Schweitzer changed my life, and they may
change yours: "You are happy. Therefore
you are called to give up much. Whatever you have
received more than others in health, in talents, in ability,
in a pleasant childhood, in harmonious conditions of home
life, all this you must not take to yourself as a matter of
course. You must pay for it. You must render in
return an unusually great sacrifice of your life for other
lives."
Clara
McBride Hale, or "Mother Hale" as she is called,
loves children and when she began finding abused, abandoned,
and even infants infected with the AIDS virus, she took them
in and loved them as her own.
In
1969, Mother Hale opened Hale House, a shelter for children
and a lifesaving environment for young drug-addicted
mothers. In recognition of her contribution, President
Ronald Reagan named Mother Hale an American Hero in 1985.
An
attitude of creative giving can become the greatest creative
force in the world. When we consider all that others
have done for us since the world began, we become stimulated
and inspired to do something for the world. In a deep
sense we owe the world a creative spirit. There are
millions of ways, great and small, that creative energy may
be put to work.
Success
in life is too often measured by what a person
acquires. More meaningful is what a person
contributes.
And
this goes beyond the contribution of money to the
contribution of ideas, plans, methods, ideals, visions,
projects. Behind all material progress is mental and
spiritual progress. The creative thinkers start the
ball rolling. They visualize programs and goals.
They dream dreams. They help people to grow.
And
in a personal way they enrich themselves in something more
than dollars. They contribute love, hope, courage,
faith, peace, and joy to others. Such a spirit of
contribution has broad and long-lasting influence; a depth
of true success is experienced that can be attained in no
other way.
Go-givers
are far more effective than go-getters, and when you give
ideas, you give the most precious gifts life has to offer,
for everything begins with an idea!
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