Today,
a new day has dawned in our lives, bringing us all
sorts of possibilities
and potential, from meeting new people to dealing in
new ways with people we
know already to learning new things about our work
or our education or the other
human beings who are part of our lives. Please
live this day well!
Every moment is a golden one to those
who have the vision to recognize it as such.
-
Henry Miller
My
advice to you is not to inquire why or whither,
but just to enjoy your ice cream while it's on your plate. -
Thornton Wilder
Nature
always takes her time. Great oaks don't become great
overnight. They also lose a lot of leaves, branches,
and bark
in the process of becoming great. -
Andrew
Matthews
Those
who know how to play can easily leap over the adversities of
life. And one who knows how to sing and laugh never brews mischief.
-
Iglulik
Proverb
When I was a child, there was a well-known
advertisement for V8 Juice. Someone would
drink something else and then realize, "Wow, I
coulda had a V8!" As an adult, I've
realized many times, when situations have not turned
out so well, "Wow, I coulda had a
miracle!"
I could have had a miracle. . . except.
. . ! Except that I didn't think miracles were
possible. I didn't think in a miraculous
way. I didn't stand firmly on the principle
that God can do anything. In the words of A
Course in Miracles, "There is no order of
difficulty in miracles." No problem is
too hard for God to solve [however or whatever you
conceive God to be]. This is a very
important point to remember, as it's hard to have
deep faith in a kinda-sorta-powerful God.
Faith in God, however, is inseparable from faith in
love. To say that there is nothing God cannot
do is to say that there is nothing love cannot
do. It does little good to ask God's help, if
we ourselves remain unwilling to open our hearts in
places where they are closed. It is not just
God's love for us, but our love for each other, that
paves the way for miracles.
If we fail to express God's love through
faith or compassion or forgiveness, then the problem
is not the absence of God's power but rather our
failure to align our will with His.
He cannot
do for us what He cannot do through us. A
house might be wired for electricity, but it still
needs lamps if it's to be lit.
With every thought of miraculous possibility, the
lamp is plugged in. A miracle is simply a
shift in perception. The more we align
ourselves with the principles of love, the more
empowered we become.
Children memorize
the alphabet so they can learn how to read; we should memorize
mystical principles so we can learn how to live most
creatively. Each of us can live in the victory of spirit,
claiming for ourselves the miraculous power that has been given
to us as children of God. It is our faith that
miracles are possible--that the very fabric of the universe is
miraculous-- which opens the mind, and thus the future, to
unimaginable possibilities. "Dear God, please send a
miracle" is a powerful prayer for cosmic support. To
pray is to take spiritual action.
The earth is dominated by thoughts of fear, and we are
conditioned by these thoughts to forget the power of our
Source. Having not been taught the grandeur of our
heritage, we do not remember the grandeur of our mission.
We forget that we have the extraordinary power to work miracles
in the name of God. Illusion and fear tie up the
Prometheus inside us. No, we cannot do this or that,
because we don't have enough money, or enough talent, or enough
intelligence. No, we cannot change the world, because it's
been the way it's been too long. No one needs to hold us
down if we believe we're down already. As long as there
are walls inside our minds, we're bound to remain behind
them. For if you think you can't, you can't. If you
think you can, you might. And if you think God can, you're
on your way to a life of spiritual triumph. You have
claimed His power on your own behalf, which is what He would
have you do. God is not stingy with His
miracles; it's a pity we ask for so few.
It's neither arrogant nor overreaching to ask for a
miracle. Miracles aren't possible because of anything we
do; they are possible because of the nature of God. We do
not personally work them; rather, they are worked through
us as we open our hearts more deeply to love. The mystical
heart is a loving one, and thus a conduit through which God
naturally reveals Himself. We have a power in us, but not
of us, that can miraculously heal the entire world.
Perhaps the miracle arrives in the form of an insight that
unlocks a riddle in your life, a reconciliation with someone, or
the opening of a door that has long remained closed. Try
as you might, your efforts to break through using your talents,
your power of rational analysis, or sheer force of will had
remained fruitless. It was only when you put God
first--when your heart softened, you stopped blaming, you
stopped talking so much and started to truly listen--that some
wall of resistance began to crumble. You had not done
anything so much as you had released the energies of
self-will. You had asked, in a way, that God's will be
done. A miracle occurred not because you caused it but
because you allowed it. In the words of writer Willa
Cather, "Where there is great love, there are always
miracles."
Mystical consciousness is humble, but self-confident. We
are not relying on our own strength, but on God's.
Science, technology, economics, military force, and social
prestige--all of which are seen by the mortal mind as sources of
genuine might and strength--might have the power to affect
situations significantly. But they cannot work
miracles. They cannot transcend the time-space
continuum. They cannot transform the human heart.
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Spend a day in slow motion. Plan ahead and
really dedicate a whole day to moving in slow
motion. When you're moving about your house,
going to work, eating, and so on, slow. . . down.
Whatever your speed, concentrate on cutting it in
half. Remember to breathe. Find your most
comfortable, slow rhythm and breathe slowly and fully
as you go about each task, happily remembering your
Higher Power when you do so. As you finish one
thing and take off for another, you'll probably forget
that you promised yourself to spend the day in slow
motion. Just remind yourself. Keep
reminding yourself and slowing down. Pat
yourself on the back for taking this time to relax and
discover your natural rhythms, and enjoy this new
sense of being.
Moving in slow motion is beginning to balance all the
times that you hurried and pushed and strained and
rushed. Some of us operate more or less in
permanent fight-or-flight mode. We struggle with
one after another urgency or deadline until everything
becomes a race to beat the clock. Even a simple
trip to a hair-styling appointment becomes a race and
stress. This is not living. This is not
promoting our health, well-being, and connection to
our Higher Power. We've let ourselves be
dominated by false urgency of circumstance, losing our
center and natural tempo.
What is the spiritual virtue you wish to call forth
here? Finding your right speed and rhythm,
according to circumstance, and following that is
maintaining equipoise. Equipoise helps
you keep your head above water in the swirling
undertows of the world. Equipoise is a means to
creating your present mindfulness and not losing your
attention. Present mindfulness and attention are
key resources of spirituality that require constant
development, yet are all too easily forgotten.
Many of us are lost in a whirlwind of activity,
speeding along at full throttle, just skimming the
surface of life. At this breakneck speed, it is
easy to miss the signs and scenery along the way that
are always straining outside ourselves on some distant
destination. If we manage to keep going,
speeding along, as soon as we reach or even near our
destination (a worldly goal that promises to deliver
happiness to us), another far-off, distant point takes
its place and our attention. So, we take off
again with greater urgency, missing the signs and the
opportunities until we crash.
Then, a back injury, a broken relationship, a major
illness, or whatever challenge we're given will
command our attention so that we must adjust to
practice equipoise. Without critical adjusting
to achieve the much-needed equipoise, the situation
will grow worse and worse.
We are toddlers in this game of spirituality. A
Saint is able to move at a seemingly breakneck speed
yet maintain perfect equipoise, with their attention
wholly absorbed in God. For now, just be happy
to take slow, easy steps. Take one step at a
time in slow motion, maintaining your attention in
God. If you have a repetition or saying that
centers your attention, you'll find it much easier to
repeat it while you are moving in slow motion.
Concentrating on where you are now, dwelling in the
means, not the end, is the key to gathering your
attention and focusing it to engender
spirituality. When you are here now, in
equipoise, concentrating on and enjoying the means,
you are far better able to navigate the world.
The welcome surprise is that you'll reach your
destination more readily and in far better
shape. You may even find that you've been
tranquil and serene.
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Step into this moment, because it is the only one
you have right now.It
is not
wasted or thrown away.The divine opportunity could be stolen unless you tell
yourself it is here right now; available to you this moment,
to make of it anything
you choose.Why not choose this moment, right now, to be available
to
yourself
by declaring, I AM GOOD! . . . . The richness of
the present is here. The
fullness of now is present.If you are not here now, it means you could be
missing
the love, joy, peaceand brand-new ideas that are here right now.
"Authenticity" is a word that I didn't hear regularly
until I had been on this planet for quite a while already.
But it has become one of the most important words of my life, a
star to follow, an ideal to cherish, for it's a word that holds
within its meaning a richness of being that is simply one of the
most important things that we can strive for in our lives.
If I strive to be my authentic self, I give myself permission to
do the things that I know are right without worrying about what
others think; I claim the right to reject what I know to be bad
without fear of losing at something; I allow myself to treat
people as I feel inside that they should be treated, without
having concern about my standing in society or in my cultural
groups.
I will still make mistakes--after all, that's part of being
human--but those mistakes will come as I strive to be the best me
that I can possibly be, and not to meet the expectations of others
who want me to be what they think I should be.
My biggest problem with living authentically has always been
caused by the fear of making other people mad at me, or facing
their criticism for things that I do or say. We all have
that fear to some extent or another, and it's important to learn
just how that fear can affect our lives. When we make
decisions because we're afraid of other people's responses, then
we've lost much of what we call authenticity. We're then
letting other people's possible responses cause us to do
things--we're not doing them because our hearts, minds, and
spirits tell us that they're truly the right things to do.
It is finally when you let go
of what people
expect you
to be
and people's perceptions
of you that you're
able to be
the version
of yourself that
you're supposed to
be-- like
in
God's eyes. It doesn't matter
if you're
half crazy, or eccentric,
or whatever
it is-- that you have
to be true to who
you were born to be.
Gwyneth
Paltrow
How many people
have entered career fields because their parents
have pushed them in that direction or because of
potential financial benefits, not because they
genuinely loved the work they were committing
themselves to do? How many people have entered
relationships because the other person has been more
"acceptable" to their friends and
families? How many of us have put aside
hobbies or pastimes that have been considered a
waste of time by others? And how often do we
not say something because we feel that it will bring
criticism or ridicule upon us?
When we live as our authentic selves, though,
decisions become easier because we aren't concerned
with what others think of us--rather, we're
concerned that we're doing right or wrong, and we
know in our spirits what the difference is. It
doesn't mean that we judge ourselves or others;
instead, it means that we follow that still voice
within that guides us rather clearly if we allow it
to do so. If I really need a quiet Friday
night to myself in order to recover my energy after
a hectic week, I can say no to that social
engagement that someone else is trying to convince
me to say yes to. If a friend is doing
something that I'm not comfortable with, my heart
will tell me to avoid this thing, and I can do so
without feeling guilt or fearing ridicule or
anger. If I'm living authentically, I
recognize immediately that any ridicule or anger is
a reflection of the other person who is not
respecting my right to make my own decisions on my
own terms.
Since I've begun to realize the importance of
allowing my authentic self to shine through in my
daily life, I've noticed a definite increase in the
quality of my life. People almost always
respect my decisions because I'm able to explain
them in non-judgmental ways. I look forward to
much more during each day because I know that I'm
not going to face any real conflicts when I do
things in the ways that I truly enjoy or feel are
the best. I fill my life with activities that
I truly enjoy, and I have fun doing them. I'm
able to say no to many things that previously I
probably would have agreed to.
Most of all, though, I get the feeling that other
people feel better around me, for they're around
someone who isn't constantly conflicted, who doesn't
always worry about what I should do and what I
shouldn't do. And most importantly, they can
trust me to be honest about what I feel and about
what I want to do in my life.
Also, I'm almost completely unaffected by
advertising--no ad can make me want something I
don't want, or do something that I don't wish to do.
We
need to find the courage to say NO to the things and
people
that are not serving us if we want to rediscover
ourselves
and live our lives with authenticity.
Barbara
De Angelis
We're taught
from the time we're born to go along with the
crowd. In our consumer society, we're often
"taught" by ads just what's desirable and
just what's not. We're taught not to rock the
boat, but to go against the grain. To be a
good boy or girl, but to see the allure of being
"bad." Our lives are full of
conflicting messages from a multitude of sources,
almost none of which truly has our best interests in
mind. Few people, though, want us to be honest
and self-sufficient, to pursue our own lights and
goals and dreams, for once we do so, they think that
we're invalidating them and we don't spend enough
money on consumer goods.
But how do we find out just where our authenticity
lies? It can be difficult, but it isn't
impossible. The secret is, though, that we
don't have to wade through the zillions of
conflicting messages in our lives in order to find
our authenticity. Rather, we need to find time
to be quiet, time to ourselves for reflection.
And when we get by ourselves, we need to quiet our
minds and our hearts and allow ourselves to
feel. We need to ask ourselves what our dreams
are, where our aspirations can carry us, what will
give us that sense of satisfaction that we all seek
in our lives.
But sometimes major change just isn't possible, at
least in the short term. If that's the case,
we need to reflect on how we can make our current
situations better by ceasing to allow ourselves to
get involved in things that don't make us feel good,
and by acting in ways that are true to our
consciences. That woman at work who talks so
much about others makes it easy to become involved
in gossiping, but that's not the person I want to
be, so I won't listen to that talk any more, and I
certainly won't participate in it. That other
woman whom I appreciate so much--I've never told her
how much her efforts mean to me. I need to
tell her and thank her for what she does.
And this weekend, I need to take a walk in the
woods, because that's something that I truly love to
do. And while I know that I'm expected to give
several hours a week volunteering at church, that
time is making me stressed out and defeating the
whole purpose of the weekend--I need to tell them
that I can do that every other week, or even every
third week.
Often
misconstrued, authenticity is not about being an open book,
revealing every detail of yourself without rhyme or reason.
It is simply
the act of openly and courageously seeing what needs to be
seen,
saying what needs to be said, doing what needs to be done,
and becoming that which you are intent on being.
Scott Edmund Miller
My authentic
self is not interested in public recognition or
fame. It's not interested in being a part of
the herd. It takes no joy in doing things that
it knows it shouldn't be doing. My authentic
self is peaceful, self-assured, and loving, and when
I act from that self, my life becomes much more
pleasant and fulfilling. It's quite ironic
that our authentic selves are the most neglected
parts of who we are, but once we realize that fact
we can go about peeling off all those layers that we
and society have covered us with so that we can go
about living the lives that we were meant to live,
in the ways that bring us the most fulfillment and
love.
I
hope that my achievements
in life shall be these -- that I
will
have fought for what was
right and fair, that I will have
risked
for that which mattered,
and that I will have given help
to those
who were in need; that
I will have left the earth a
better place
for what I've
done and who I've been.
C.
Hoppe
Relief Is Just a Pivot Away Carol
James
You’re tense, tired,
edgy, perhaps even angry, hurt or feeling abused. But before
dealing directly with the source of whatever provoked your
feelings, get yourself into a more balanced and resourceful state
of mind. Then you will be able to see your situation more
objectively and work on a more permanent solution. Here are four
easy ways to pivot:
Take a Break.No matter how
difficult the situation may appear to be, a change of pace can
help you open up new ways of looking at the problem. Stop what
you’re doing and find something else to do. Focus your mind on
anything but the cause of your stress. For example, if you’re
working on a stressful task, find another task to work on.
Practice Deep Breathing.
Breathing! It's one of the
simplest yet most effective ways to manage stress's effects on
your body. When you’re stressed, you have a tendency to
breathe more shallowly and rapidly – some people even hold
their breath – depriving your body of vital oxygen. To promote
a relaxation response, breathe slowly and deeply.
Work It Off Physically.
Physical activities like
stretching, walking or yoga can help relax both your mind and
your body. Even a five- or ten-minute movement break can go a
long way toward helping your body reduce the tension caused by
stress.
Appreciate What’s Working.The more you focus on
problems, the more stressed out you’ll feel. Likewise, the
more you dwell on what’s working, the better you’ll feel.
Review in your mind or make a list of everything that’s
"right" with your job. You may discover that you
can’t be in a stressed out state and an appreciative state at
the same time. For this reason, appreciation can be one of the
most powerful tools for easing tension and feeling better
immediately.
You may find that once
you release the tension and take your focus off the problem, the
solution will magically appear.
What people accomplish
in a day depends upon the way in which they approach their tasks.
When we accept
tough jobs as a challenge to our ability and wade into them with joy
and
enthusiasm, miracles can happen. When we do our work with a
dynamic conquering
spirit, we get things done.
Arland Gilbert
Yes, life
can be mysterious and confusing--but there's much of life that's
actually rather dependable and reliable. Some principles apply
to life in so many different contexts that they can truly be called
universal--and learning what they are and how to approach them and use
them can teach us some of the most important lessons that we've ever
learned.
My doctorate is in Teaching and Learning. I use it a lot when I
teach at school, but I also do my best to apply what I've learned to
the life I'm living, and to observe how others live their lives.
What makes them happy or unhappy, stressed or peaceful, selfish or
generous, compassionate or arrogant? In this book, I've done my
best to pass on to you what I've learned from people in my life,
writers whose works I've read, and stories that I've heard.
Perhaps these principles can be a positive part of your life, too! Universal Principles of Living Life Fully. Awareness of
these principles can explain a lot and take much of the frustration
out of the lives we lead.
Explore all of our
quotations pages--these links will take you to the first page of each
topic, and those pages will contain links to any additional pages on
the same topic (there are five pages on adversity, for example).