
9 December 2024
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Simple and Profound
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Here
I am, fifty-eight, and I still
don't know
what I'm going
to be
when I grow up. -Peter Drucker
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They
are wise people who do not grieve
for the things
which they have not,
but rejoice for those which they have. -Epictetus
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It is better for
you to be free of fear lying upon a pallet,
than to have
a golden couch and a rich table and be full of trouble. -Epicurus
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The most
beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious.
It is
the fundamental emotion which stands at the
cradle of true art and true science. -Albert Einstein
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Living More
Consciously
Duane Elgin
The word consciousness literally means "that with
which we know." It has also been termed the knowing
faculty. To live more consciously means to be more
consciously aware, moment by moment, that we are present in all we
do. When we stand and talk, we know that we are standing and
talking. When we sit and eat, we know that we are sitting
and eating. When we do the countless things that make up our
daily lives, we remember the being that is involved in those
activities. We remember ourselves (and to
"re-member" is to make whole; it is the opposite of
dis-memberment). To live consciously is to move through life
with conscious self-remembering.
We are not bound to habitual and preprogrammed ways of perceiving
and responding when we are consciously watchful of ourselves in
the process of living. Consider several examples. It
is difficult to relate to another person solely as the embodiment
of a social position or job title when, moment by moment, we are
consciously aware of the utter humanness that we both possess--a
humanness whose magnificence and mystery dwarf the seeming
importance of status and titles as a basis of a
relationship. It is difficult to deceive another person
when, moment by moment, we are consciously aware of our unfolding
experience of deception. It is difficult to sustain the
experience of sexual desire by projecting a sexual fantasy when,
moment by moment, we are conscious that we are creating and
relating to a fantasy rather than the authentic individual we are
with.
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In short, when we
begin to consciously watch ourselves, in the activities of daily
life, we begin to cut through confining self-images, social
pretenses, and psychological barriers. We begin to live more
voluntarily.
We all have the ability to consciously know ourselves as we move
through life. The capacity to "witness" the
unfolding of our lives is not an ability that is remote or hidden
from us. To the contrary, this is an experience that is so
close, so intimate, and so ordinary, that we easily overlook it
presence and significance. An old adage states, It's a rare
fish that knows it swims in water. Analogously the challenge
of living voluntarily is not in gaining access to the conscious
experience of ourselves but rather in consciously recognizing the
witnessing experience and then learning the skills of sustaining
our opening to that experience.
To clarify the nature of conscious watchfulness, I would like to
ask you several questions. Have you been conscious of the
fact that you have been sitting here reading this book? Have
you been conscious of changes in your bodily sensations, frame of
mind, and emotions? Were you totally absorbed in the book
until I asked? Or had you unintentionally allowed your
thoughts to wander to other concerns? Did you just
experience a slight shock of self-recognition when I
inquired? What does it feel like to notice yourself reading
while you read; to observe yourself eating while you eat; to see
yourself watching television while you watch television; to notice
yourself driving while you drive; to experience yourself talking
while you talk?
Despite the utter simplicity of being consciously watchful of our
lives, this is a demanding activity. At first it is a
struggle to just occasionally remember ourselves moving through
the daily routine. A brief moment of self-remembering is
followed by an extended period where we are lost in the flow of
thought and the demands of the exterior world. Yet with
practice we find that we can more easily remember ourselves--while
walking down the street or while we are at home, at work, at
play. We come to recognize, as direct experience, the nature
of "knowing that we know." As our familiarity with
this mode of perception increases, we get lost in thought and
worldly activities less and less frequently. In turn, we
experience our behavior in the world as more and more choiceful,
or voluntary.
Bringing conscious attention into our daily lives may lack the
mystery of searching for enlightenment with an Indian sorcerer and
the spiritual glamour of sitting for long months in an Eastern
monastic setting, but consciously attending to our daily-life
activities is an eminently useful, readily accessible, and
powerful tool for enhancing our capacity for voluntary action.
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The
Art of Manifestation
Lucinda
Bassett
The art of manifestation rests on using the universal
law of attraction to benefit your life. I see it
as the law of attraction in action--the process of
doing something in order to achieve a specific
purpose. When you say things like "I can't
afford that" or "That isn't for people like
me," you are generating a climate in which you
truly can't afford it so it isn't for you.
Instead, try saying "I always have plenty of
money for everything I need and want." Now
you are generating energy that will put you in control
and help you prioritize your decisions based on
abundance, not lack.
The idea is to act like the thing you wish to manifest
is already your reality. Just keep in mind that
everything takes time and that your circumstances
today are a direct result of your past thoughts and
beliefs. If you start thinking and acting
differently now, if you give the new habit time to set
in, you will reap different results in the
future. The universe is just waiting for you to
take action. So don't underestimate the power of
taking one step at a time. It doesn't matter how
big or small your actions are. Any action in the
general direction of your new reality is enough to get
the ball rolling.
Using deliberateness in the art of manifestation is
crucial. You will be successful when you
- Are specific about what you want.
- Use the present tense in your expressions. (I am
making more money instead of I will be making
more money.)
- Affirm your desires all day long.
- Understand the changes you are asking for.
- Have faith in the end result.
- Be flexible.
- Use the power of daily meditation and prayer.
- Get in the habit of expressing gratitude.
There are several ways I've found to shift my overall
patterns of manifestation: affirmations and
visualizations as well as active meditations and
prayer. The purpose of affirmations is to
increase your intention and desire, thus inviting the
magical experience of manifestation to occur.
The second choice for manifesting is the use of
visualization. The images you visualize can be
as simple as a single snapshot held in your
mind. But when it becomes more dynamic, such as
a detailed image of a life change or a place you'd
like to live, there will be added power in your
action.
If you want to be even more focused, I suggest you
create a daily mantra that will help you affirm the
way you want to live. Dating back thousands of
years, mantras are words or sentences that affirm the
way you want to live your life. In order to
create your own personal mantra, make a list of three
things you want to change in your life. Write
them in this form:
I am. . . stressed, debt-ridden, exhausted.
Don't think too much. Just write them down as
they arise in your mind. Then, for each item,
write down the opposite idea in the same form:
I am. . . at peace, financially secure,
well-rested.
String together these positive thoughts in a pleasing
order, such as in this form:
I am at peace and well-rested and my world is
financially secure.
Write down your mantra on an index card and post it
where you will see it often during the day. Make
multiple copies, one for your car, your office, your
bathroom. Repeat this mantra throughout the day,
whenever you think about it and especially before you
go to bed.
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ought to be, we are only half awake. We are
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use of only a small part of our physical and mental
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Perseverance/Determination
Sometimes I want to give up. There are times in life when we
all face moments that seem too difficult to bear, when we feel
like giving up because our efforts seem fruitless, when we feel
that we don't have enough strength left to persevere without
wiping ourselves out completely. These are the times when
it's difficult to keep our perspective, and when it's difficult to
think clearly, for our fear or our pain are dominating our
thoughts.
Sometimes we feel worn down, as if we've been fighting and
struggling forever without seeing results, and we see other people
work not nearly as hard as we're working, yet somehow they're
seeing more results to their efforts. Our frustration level
grows and grows, and we feel a lack of the hope that should be
keeping us going.
These are just the times when, as some people put it, we find out
"what we're made of." There are many people in
this world who use such situations as a reason to stop trying, as
grounds for giving up. They abandon their goals and dreams
because they've proven to be too hard to reach, or because they
don't feel that they're strong enough to keep on trying.
They go back to what they were doing before because the new things
aren't working out quickly enough or easily enough, so they
retreat to safety in order to preserve themselves--or so they
believe.
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Nothing
in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will
not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent.
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.
Education
will not;
the world is filled with educated derelicts. Perseverance
and determination alone are omnipotent.
Calvin
Coolidge
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Life, though,
is not about safety, and it's not about being
easy. We search for the easiest routes
sometimes because we don't want to have to struggle,
and we don't want to face the possibility of
failure. Sometimes, of course, the easiest
route can get us to where we need to go. Other
times, though, the easier path will never allow us
to reach our goals or our dreams, and then it's very
easy to give up, to not strive to get further or to
reach our desired destination. I may want to
have a certain degree, but unless I'm willing to
work hard for it--over the course of a lot of
time--that degree won't be mine. If I want to
be very, very good at my job, then I need to do the
work necessary to get better, and not give up
because it's "too hard."
We're tested as people not by doing the same things
over and over again, but by pushing through
obstacles and giving our best to go further in life,
not to stay in the same place. The world is
full of people who tried for a while, but then gave
up--people who weren't willing to push themselves
any harder. But what if I don't want to be one
of those people who have given up?
Then it's very important that I keep telling myself
that just because something is hard, it won't kill
me or devastate me. I have to remind myself
constantly that many other people have pushed on
through hard times and down times to finally reach a
point at which they succeed. I have to keep in
mind that the difficulties and the anguish will pass
eventually, and I'll be extremely glad when they do
pass that I stuck with my original plans through
thick and thin.
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It is not so much
brilliancy of intellect, or fertility of resource, as
persistency of effort, constancy of purpose, that makes a great
person. Persistency always gives confidence. Everybody believes in
the people
who persist. They may meet misfortunes, sorrows, and
reverses, but
everybody believes that they will ultimately triumph because they
know
there is no keeping them down. "Do they keep at
it? Are they persistent?" are the questions which the world asks about us.
Even the person with small ability will often succeed if he or she
has
the quality of persistence, where a genius without persistence
would fail.
Orison
Swett Marden
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There are, of
course, situations in which perseverance isn't the
best course of action. If I'm running a
marathon and I start feeling severe pain in my knee
at ten miles, then I'm not going to finish that
marathon. Note, though, that I said
"severe" pain--there are other types of
pain that I've learned as a runner can simply be run
through, and they'll go away after some time.
If I've set my goal as reaching a certain position
in my job, but in the meantime a new supervisor has
been hired who treats people horribly, perhaps it's
time to scrap that goal and make a new one--in a
different workplace. Sometimes persistence is
simply stubbornness disguised as something more
positive, and it's important that we recognize
things like stubbornness in the many masks that they
wear.
All in all, though, persistence is one of the most
important character traits that we can
develop. No novel or book has been written
without it; no important research can be developed
and finished if those doing the work don't have the
determination necessary to bring it to a close.
There are many lessons about perseverance all about
us, every day, that we can learn if we just keep our
eyes open for them. If we wait, the tide will
come back in (or go back out); even the darkest
night will eventually give way to day; the light
will appear at the end of the tunnel; the water and
wind eventually will wear down any stone; time and
again teams win games in the very last moment
possible. In each case, they have to keep on
keeping on, doing what they're doing without giving
up. Sometimes the results may not be exactly
what we hoped for of planned, but determination can
be one of the most important elements of any life.
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No
one ever did anything worth doing
unless they were prepared
to go on with
it long after it became something of a bore.
Douglas V. Steere
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I want to be a
determined person. I want to pursue my goals
without giving up, even when they may seem
hopeless. I want to pursue my dreams no matter
how many people tell me to be more realistic.
I won't fool myself into thinking that perseverance
alone will solve all the ills in my life, but I will
keep in mind that without perseverance, I can pretty
much guarantee that I will not be able to do many of
the things that I dream of doing.
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Sometimes
during the day, I
consciously focus on some ordinary
object and
allow myself a momentary "paying-attention." This
paying-attention gives meaning
to my life. I don't know who it was, but someone said that
careful attention
paid to anything is
a window into the universe. Pausing
to think
this way,
even for a brief
moment, is very important. It gives
quality to
my day.
Robert Fulghum
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Perspective
can cause us to see a
beautiful sunset as a boring, ordinary part of daily life, or it
can help us to see the beauty in the many "ordinary"
things that surround us. Almost everything we see
or have access to is a miracle, either in its simplicity
or complexity. The flowers that grow in our gardens have gone
through an amazing process of turning from a seed to flowers.
The rivers that flow are fed with water that has gone through an
incredible cycle of evaporation, falling as rain, flowing to a certain
area where it can join the river. The fact that I can write these
words and put them on the internet so that friends I shall never meet in
South Africa and Hong Kong can read
them is one of the greatest miracles of our times, yet
the internet has quickly become "normal," a
tool for businesses to make more money.
But I've recognized something very
important--I can refuse to see the world and the things
and people in it as "normal"; I can choose to
see the marvelous qualities of everything, but I have to
work at it, for our societal norms tell us to value
conformity and the status quo. I'll always look for
the beauty in trees, the soul in the eyes of the people I meet, the wonder of the flowers that come out each spring,
the loveliness of children at play. And I'll do so
because I choose to do so, for those are the important
things in life. I'm not here to make money or
become famous--I'm here to love and to live. If I focus on that and maintain a great deal of responsibility (yes,
i will work), then I can't help but live a full life, for
there are many more rewards available to those who are
easily satisfied and entertained, and I choose to be more
than satisfied with the reward of a child's smile or a
friend's "thank you."
tom
walsh
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An excellent way to practice love is to set
your attention on seeing beyond
someone's behavior or
personality. Try to realize that beneath the
surface insecurity,
negative thinking, and poor behavior,
everyone is connected to God. Just as you wouldn't
get angry at someone simply because he or she is in a
wheelchair, you need not
be angry because a person hasn't
yet opened his heart to the nourishment of his Soul.
When people act in unloving ways, it only
means that they are out of touch
with their Souls and
aren't feeling spiritually nourished. When that
happens,
there is no need to panic. The best we can
do for ourselves is nourish
our own Soul by looking
beyond the behavior we don't care for,
thus practicing
the art of love.
Richard Carlson
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