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The
ultimate lesson we all have to learn is unconditional
love, which includes not only others but ourselves as
well.
Elisabeth
Kuebler-Ross |
It
is not the brains that matter most, but that which guides
them--character, the heart, generous qualities,
progressive ideas.
Feodor
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There
have been men and women in every generation who have
longed for a better day and who have been willing to aid
the forces which they believed would hasten that day.
Arnaud
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The Power of Goals
Mac Anderson
Find a purpose and your passion will follow. But
write it down, and read it often.
I got this lesson early in my life. I was a
freshman at Murray State University in Murray, Kentucky,
and was recruited by my friend Eddie Grogan to sell books
for the Southwestern Company. They had been in
business for over 100 years and each summer hired several
thousand college students. Eddie had done well the
summer before and made four times as much as I had working
at a men's clothing store. I was excited and wanted
to try it for the new experience and for the additional
money. There was one small problem, though. My
dad didn't want me to do it. Not only did he not
want me to do it. . . he didn't think I could do
it.
Well, that was it. I now had a mission. The
son was going to prove the father wrong.
As summer approached, however, I began to have
doubts. Furthermore, I realized it was going to be
hard work--over sixty hours a week for three months.
Maybe I didn't have the discipline or maybe I couldn't
handle the rejection of selling door-to-door.
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In the end, however, I decided to give it a shot.
The opportunity to prove my dad wrong overpowered my
doubts and fears. I then made an impulsive decision
that would hold the key to my success that summer. I
wrote myself a letter and promised myself I'd read it
every day. I still have it, and here's what it said:
Dear Mac,
This is the chance of a lifetime. You'll find
out what you're made of. Your dad doesn't think you
can do it. You can prove him wrong. It won't
be easy and I'm sure there will be many times you'll want
to quit. Hang in there with every fiber of
persistence that you can muster.
At the end of the summer when you look in the
mirror, say with pride. . . I did it.
Make him proud to say, this is my son.
Well, did I make him proud? You bet I did.
Out of several thousand college students from schools all
over the country, I ranked seventh in sales for the
summer. But more importantly, I made myself
proud. I proved that I had the guts and the
discipline to stick it out. It was also a giant
boost to my self-esteem.
The question I've asked myself many times is. . . would
I have succeeded without the letter? And the answer
in my mind always comes back. . . No! Without
question, this was the most difficult job I've ever had in
my life. The hours were long, the rejection was
tough, and there were at least a dozen times in the first
month that I wanted to quit.
I am 100 percent convinced that the difference in my
success or failure that summer was those 84 words I wrote
on a sheet of notebook paper. The lessons I learned
were powerful: discipline, hard work, goals.
But most of all I learned the power of words. . . when
tied to a purpose.
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Eyes
Wide Open
tom walsh
Autumn
and Lean Times
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can't help but be in love with autumn. There are so
many marvelous aspects of this season that it's impossible
for me to live through it each year without being
astonished, amazed, and impressed at just how this planet
of ours changes during these few months when it's turning
on its axis just enough to change our weather, our light,
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Autumn in
the northern hemisphere traditionally brings the harvest.
I know that I have no active part in this harvest except for
helping to consume it, but the season still is a beautiful time
to remember all the blessings that the world gives to us.
Here in North America, we're treated to a wonderful mix of
things including apples, pumpkins, grains, and many other
edibles. As a result of the harvest, these are the days of
apple cider, pumpkin pie, hot cereals, apple pies, and other
dishes too numerous to name.
In
addition to providing for our nutritional needs, autumn also
contributes to our aesthetic appreciation. With the change
in colors of the leaves on trees and bushes come some of the
most intense and remarkable landscape scenes that we'll ever
see, reminding us just how spectacular this planet of ours can
be. It also reminds us of our creativity and our love for
the aesthetically pleasing, as well as helping us to keep in
mind just how deeply we can feel the pleasant sense of
appreciation when we do see a scene that literally takes our
breath away, even if for only a few moments.
Autumn
also can rekindle our spirits by reminding us of the seasons of
life and their place in our existence. The change from
spring to summer isn't very dramatic, but when we move from
summer to fall, we witness a very dramatic shift in the world
around us. Trees lose their leaves, temperatures fall
significantly, skies tend to be greyer for longer periods of
time, and the first snowfalls come and blanket the world.
Spiritually, these reminders of the cycles of life help us to
strengthen ourselves, help us to see that such times of supposed
"deprivation" often serve as preparation,
instead. The loss of light and leaves isn't the earth
dying, but is the earth preparing itself for the hardships of
winter. Sometimes our most despairing days may be those
days of preparation that will serve us well in the times
ahead. In addition to the preparation, autumn helps us
spiritually by slowing us down a bit, keeping us inside more,
pointing out the beauty of reflection and focus on our inner
selves in contrast to our summertime focus on all the things
that are going on around us.
This
tendency to stay indoors also can help our relationships a great
deal. When everyone's on the go most of the time, it can
become difficult to find time to sit and talk with a friend, a
parent, a sibling, or a child. When the weather keeps us
indoors, though, we find ourselves with an opportunity to be
closer to the people we care about. When we're not
wondering what we're going to go out and do, we can take the
chance to sit down with someone else and simply be, playing
games or drinking coffee or tea or simply chatting with
someone. There's an intimacy to autumn that we don't find
in the summer--or at least there's an opportunity for intimacy,
if only we'll take advantage of the chances that are there.
If we
allow it to do so, autumn can remind us of the beauty and
importance of simplicity. It can remind us that just
because things appear to be turning bleak and dismal, the fact
is that nature always takes care of herself by forcing her
creatures and plants to rest when they need to rest.
These are
good lessons to keep in mind during our current world financial
situations. There's no arguing with the fact that things
seem to be quite dismal, and many people are suffering from a
lack of the basics that they need in their lives. Yes, it
does look like a winter is coming, and the winter may be more
difficult to get through than most. But ours is a
world of cycles, and if we recognize that our financial culture
is going through a difficult autumn, we can plan for that by
making sure that we're well set to get through the difficult
times.
Instead
of eating all the fruits we find, as we do in summer, we can eat
some and save some. Instead of rushing out to take
advantage of new things that cost us money, as we do in summer,
we can plan to spend time at home with loved ones. We can
take our cues from the farmers, who every year have dealt with
the lower incomes of winter--they've taken autumn's cue and
they've stocked up on everything they can so that they can make
it through the difficult, lean times.
Even
though autumn shows us a leaner side of the world, we still can
find much beauty and promise in it. As we watch the
turmoil of the world around us today, we may not see the beauty
in it, but we can take solace in knowing that this is an
inevitable part of the cycles of life, and if we have faith that
spring will come right after winter, then we can look forward to
fall as a time that teaches us simplicity and spirituality while
nurturing us with its gifts, as long as we keep ourselves open
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The
Blind Boy
An insightful story tells of a blind boy who sat on the steps of
a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign that read:
"I am blind, please help." However, people were
tossing very few coins in his hat.
One man stopped, took a few coins from his pocket, and dropped
them into the hat. He then picked up the boy's sign. He turned
it around and wrote some words. Then, he set the sign on the
walk so that everyone walking by would see the new words he had
written.
Soon, people began stopping and crowding around the boy. Before
long, the hat was filled with coins!
That afternoon, the man who had changed the sign returned to see
how his young friend was doing. The boy recognized the man's
voice and said, "You were the man who changed my sign this
morning. My hat is overflowing with coins. What did you
write?"
The man replied, "I only wrote the truth. I said what you
said, but I said it in a different way."
The man had written: "Today is a beautiful day and I cannot
see it."
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A passing stranger with a gift for language, shares it with a
boy who needed hope. In doing so, he influences the hearts of
many to give the gift of spiritual sight. We see kindness with
spiritual eyes, and when we give it away, it returns to us in
unexpected ways.
Gifts of simple kindness are gifts of lasting value. They
bring spiritual energy and aliveness to both giver and receiver.
It is an unbreakable law that we will receive in multiples the
things we give. The law does not fail as long as the giving is
unconditional. Unconditional kindnesses return from many
unexpected sources.
Herman Melville observed, "We cannot live for ourselves;
our lives are connected by a thousand invisible threads, and
along these sympathetic fibres, our actions run as causes and
return to us as results."
Focus your awareness on the goodness in your life by asking
yourself these questions:
"What simple kindnesses, given or received, have brought
the greatest serenity and beauty to my life?"
"If I could receive any goodness in my life from another
individual today, without any limitation, what would I want?
"What simple act of kindness could I offer today to a
friend, loved one, or co-worker to brighten their day?"
Take a look at Linda Riley's "Loving Ideas" listed
below, and bring kindness into someone's life today. It will add
a welcome spark of joy and energy that keeps on giving.
Have a fantastic day! :-)
Steve Brunkhorst
© Copyright Steve Brunkhorst. All Rights Reserved. Find many
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Loving Ideas
Don't underestimate the simple act of smiling.
Be friendly, polite, and liberal with please; thank you,
and sincere words of affirmation.
Really listen. Look people in the eye, and give them your
full attention.
Refrain from judging. Give others the benefit of the doubt.
Help others live up to your good expectations of them.
Learn to say "I'm sorry" with sincerity and
humility.
Treat every call as if it is the most important one of the
day. Let both your tone and your words say "Welcome,"
not "Keep out."
When someone expresses a need, do something about it.
Be prompt with get-well cards and expressions of sympathy.
Share what you already have: home-baked bread, garden
produce, outgrown clothing and toys, extra furniture.
Teach a skill to a younger person.
Remember birthdays and anniversaries with a card.
If you have the time and the stamina, offer to baby-sit
occasionally for single moms or just plain hassled and harried
moms.
Send thank-you notes promptly after receiving a gift or
special help.
Love generously.
Linda Riley
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Mission
statements represent your belief system—the priorities,
values and principles that measure your decisions. It
provides overall direction and clarifies your purpose and
meaning. When you clearly know what you want to be and to
do in your life, you feel strong in your sense of mission.
You’re no longer driven by everything that happens to
you. Rather, you feel a deep and complete commitment to
following your innermost values.
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Although
her physician stopped by her hospital room
to see her every day while she was recuperating from and operation,
he hardly said more than a few words to her. One morning, however,
he was unusually talkative. After chatting for about 15 minutes,
he turned to leave and said, "It sure has been nice talking to you,
Mrs. Smith.
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Your Life
Emmet Fox
There is no
need to be unhappy. There is no need to be sad. There is no need
to be disappointed, or oppressed, or aggrieved. There is no need
for illness or failure or discouragement. There is no necessity
for anything but success, good health, prosperity, and an
abounding interest and joy in life.
That the lives
of many people are full of dreary things is unfortunately only
too true; but there is no necessity for them to be there.
They are there only because their victims suppose them to be
inevitable, not because they are so. As long as you accept a
negative condition at its own valuation, so long will you remain
in bondage to it; but you have only to assert your birthright as
a free man or woman and you will be free.
Success and
happiness are the natural condition of humankind. It is actually
easier for us to demonstrate these things than the reverse. Bad
habits of thinking and acting may obscure this fact for a time,
just as a wrong way of walking or sitting, or holding a pen or a
musical instrument may seem to be easier than the proper way,
because we have accustomed ourselves to it; but the proper way
is the easier nevertheless.
Unhappiness,
frustration, poverty, loneliness are really bad habits that
their victims have become accustomed to bear with more or less
fortitude, believing that there is no way out, whereas there is
a way; and that way is simply to acquire good habits of mind
instead of bad ones--habits of working with the Law instead of
against it.
You should
never "put up" with anything. You should never be
willing to accept less than Health, Harmony, and Happiness.
These things are your Divine Right as the sons and daughters of
God, and it is only a bad habit, unconscious, as a rule, that
causes you to be satisfied with less. In the depths of our being
people always feel intuitively that there is a way out of our
difficulties if only we can find it, and our natural instincts
all point in the same direction.
The infant, as
yet uncontaminated by the defeatist suggestions of his or her
elders, simply refuses to tolerate inharmony on any terms, and
therefore demonstrates over it. When the infant is hungry he or
she tells the world with a confident insistence that commands
attention, while many sophisticated adults go without. Does the
infant find a pin sticking in some part of his or her anatomy?
Not for him or her a sigh of resignation to the supposed
"will of God" (it is really blasphemy to say that evil
or suffering could ever be the will of God, All Good), or a
whine about never having any luck, or a sigh that what cannot be
cured must be endured. No, the defeatist view of life has not
yet touched the babies; their instincts tell them that life and
harmony are inseparable. And sure enough, that pin is located
and removed even if everything else has to come to a stop until
it is done.
But
"shades of the prison-house begin to close about the
growing boy," and by the time the child is old enough to
think rationally, the Race habit will have trained the child to
use reason largely in the inverted way.
Refuse to
tolerate anything less than harmony. You can have prosperity no
matter what your present circumstances may be. You can have
health and physical fitness. You can have a happy and joyous
life. You can have a good home of your own. You can have
congenial friends and comrades. You can have a full, free,
joyous life, independent and untrammeled. You can become your
own master or your own mistress. But to do this you must
definitely seize the rudder of your own destiny and steer boldly
and firmly for the port that you intend to make.
What are you
doing about your future? Are you content to let things just
drift along as they are, hoping, like Mr. Micawber, for
something to "turn up"? If you are, be assured that
there is no escape in that way. Nothing ever will turn up unless
you exercise your Free Will and go out and turn it up for
yourself by becoming acquainted with the Laws of Life, and
applying them to your own individual conditions. That is the
only way. Otherwise the years will pass all too swiftly, leaving
you just where you are now, if not worse off, for there is no
limit to the result of thought either for good or evil.
People have
dominion over all things when they know the Law of Being, and
obey it. The Law gives you power to bring any condition into
your life that is not harmful. The Law gives you power to
overcome your own weaknesses and faults of character, no matter
how often you may have failed in the past or how tenacious they
may have seemed to be. The Law gives you power to attain
prosperity and position without infringing the rights and
opportunities of anyone else in the world. The Law gives you
Freedom; freedom of soul, and body, and environment.
The law gives
you Independence so that you can build your own life in your own
way, in accordance with your own ideas and ideals; and plan out
your future along the lines that you yourself desire. If you do
not know what you really want to make you happy, then the Law
will tell you what you want, and get it for you, too. And the
Law rightly understood and applied will save you from the danger
of what is called "outlining" with all its risks and
limitations.
The Law will
endow you with the gift of what is called Originality;
Originality is the doing of things in a new way which is a
better way, and different from anyone else's way.
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I have heard that beauty is in the eye of the
beholder, so today
and every day I make a conscious effort
to behold the beauty
in all people.
Every person of every nation is a child of God,
here by divine appointment. All people—my friends, relatives,
even complete
strangers—are works of the divine Creator.
They
are all tributes to God’s grandeur and
reflect the beauty that is God.
I am beautiful. When I look in the mirror, I see a unique,
magnificent,
God-centered being looking back.
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