February 20, 2007

  
A friend once told me that the cemeteries were full of people who believed they were indispensable.

Jamie Sams

We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it
for ourselves after a journey that no one
can take for us or spare us.

Marcel Proust

Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and
most fools do. But it takes character and
self-control to be understanding and forgiving.

Dale Carnegie

  

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We Are the Decent People of the World
Wilferd A. Peterson

If I Had My Life to Live Over
Erma Bombeck

Letting Go of Mental Pollutants 
(an excerpt)    Hugh Prather

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We Are the Decent People of the World
Wilferd A. Peterson

We are the decent people of the world.

We are in the majority, for men and women are essentially decent.

We live in all nations, we live under all the flags that fly.

Decency is not determined by our economic status, our religion, the language we speak, the color of our skin, or the ideology under which we live.  Human decency is a universal quality.

We, the decent people of the world, often have our voices drowned out by the shouts of leaders who misrepresent the things for which we stand.

We the decent people carry enough weight to tip the scale for decency if we will make ourselves heard. . . .

We believe that war is the great indecency, that it kills and destroys all the higher sensibilities of man and leaves only death, suffering, and destruction in its wake.

We believe that this is a beautiful universe and that it is made for love and not for hate; for peace and not war; for freedom and not slavery; for order and not riot; for compassion and not violence; for happiness and not misery.

We believe that there is only one war to be waged in the name of human decency, and that is the war against all the common enemies of man . . . hunger, disease, poverty, ignorance, crime and failure.

We believe that every child should have the chance to grow up in an atmosphere of faith, not of fear.

We believe that the ultimate decency is to help men and never harm men, to lift men and not degrade men, and to respect the dignity of all men as individual human beings.

We the decent people of the world stand for the kind of life that will be good for all of the people, all of the time, everywhere.

  
   

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If I Had My Life to Live Over
Erma Bombeck

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained and the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the "good" living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television – and more while watching life.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."

There would have been more "I love You's". . . more "I'm sorry's". . . but mostly given another shot at life, I would seize every minute. . . look at it and really see it. . . live it. . . and never give it back.

  

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When I was young and free, I dreamed of changing the world.  In maturity
I discovered that the world would not change, so I decided to change
my country.  After some effort I ended up understanding that this too
was impossible.  At the end of my years I tried to change my family
but they went on being the same as they were before.  Now on my death bed
I discover that my mission was to change myself.  If I had done that,
I would have been able to change my family.  Then, with a little luck,
that change would affect my country, and then – who
knows – the whole wide world.

attributed to an Anglican Bishop of the 11th or 12th century

  

  
Letting Go of Mental Pollutants (an excerpt)
Hugh Prather

Cleansing the body of toxins and releasing the muscle of tension are familiar procedures in holistic medicine.  The need for physical purification is so obvious that, as a concept, it has become a dominant goal in self-treatment practices and within conventional medicine as well.

For example, many brand-name vitamins and nutritional supplements found in chain drugstores now are advertised as purifying and cleansing agents.  Within alternative healing circles, numerous cleansing procedures such as fasting, high-fiber and raw-food diets, enemas and high colonics, saltwater baths, and numerous "therapies" such as heat, breath, Vitamin C, and water are recommended and trusted.  Within the body-mind-spirit movement, everything from exorcisms to the burning of sage is used to cleanse rooms, residences, and buildings of their negative forces.

In the mornings, we shower and brush our teeth.  During the day we wash our hands after each visit to the restroom.  We use special antibacterial products to cleanse "kitchen surfaces."  Our laundry detergents include disinfectants.  Our dishwashers super-heat the water.  Many homes and even some cars now have air filtering systems.  Tap water is out and purified water is in.  A growing number of people carry liquid "hand sanitizers" to cleanse their hands of germs after coming out of a store or restaurant.

It's curious that we are so preoccupied with cleansing our bodies and environment of everything that can harm our health, beauty, and energy, yet we feel no real need to cleanse our minds of what can sour our attitudes, block our intuition, tear apart our relationships, and undermine the very aim and purpose of our lives.  Yet what do those who are physically pristine gain if within their sparkling habitats they live in a downward spiral of darkness and misery?  What difference does it make if a body is always scrubbed, detoxified, and all its surfaces germ-free if no living thing the body encounters is comforted?

In our houses of worship, we pay lip service to the truth that our bodies are mortal but our internal spirit is everlasting.  We sing hymns and listen to words that denounce the outward and corruptible and praise the inner and eternal.  We even say that time will end and the world will pass away but that "within us" is the kingdom of heaven.

Yet in daily life, we obviously are not concerned in the least about what is within.  All we care about is getting the outside clean.  Each day we walk forth with clean clothes, clean hair, clean teeth, but with a mind stuffed with worthless anxieties, dull resentments, stale outlooks, toxic prejudices, and an endless array of shabby self-images.  We haven't even bothered to sweep out the mental junk we picked up yesterday, not to speak of the debris we have been hauling around for a lifetime.

Our mind is not some little unencumbered spirit free to traverse whatever airy realm it chooses.  But we would like to believe it is.  We see movies and read books about fantastic fantasies and unfettered thoughts.  We talk to children about the "power of the imagination."  We attend seminars that tell us our minds have immense reserves of untapped capacity.  All in all, we have done a superb job of kidding ourselves that in our roomy "attic" all is useful, worth keeping, and in good repair.  But if we observe our minds closely for just one hour, we see that instead of a boundless chamber of magic and wonder, our minds are more like stuffed and stodgy refrigerators that emit peculiar odors.  Pick any shelf and just one brief expedition reveals items in the back so old we don't even remember acquiring them.

Nor have these containers of leftover and ancient jars of condiments been sitting quietly in the corners where they were pushed.  They are now so thick with mold and mildew that they have taken on lives of their own.  Indeed, the back recesses of our refrigerator mind are in revolt and have set up sour and stinky kingdoms of their own.  It's so scary a sight that our impulse is to shove all the front-line items quickly back in place so that now sunny orange juice, freshly packed mangoes, and organic celery once again appear to be all that's in there.

It's not a small task to clean out our overstuffed minds.  It takes a little time and courage, and we have to brace ourselves for some unpleasant discoveries.  But when the shelves are once again clean and orderly, when only fresh edibles and true nourishment are on the horizon, and when soft aromas fill the air, we will know we have made a very small sacrifice for such bounty.

In this little book on mental cleansing, Prather uses personal stories as well as step-by-step exercises to help readers understand the rewards and the process of letting go. For example, in the section on letting go of guilt and hurtful actions, Prather suggests that for at least one day readers "rise from sleep and make your purpose only this: 'I will go through this day harmlessly. I will hurt no one in my thoughts or in my actions, including myself.'" Prather includes numerous similar kinds of assignments in all of his chapters, including how to let go of..."Mental Pollutants," "Misery," "Prediction and Control," and "Spiritual Specialness."

  

Mission statements represent your belief system—the priorities, values and principles that measure your decisions. It provides overall direction and clarifies your purpose and meaning. When you clearly know what you want to be and to do in your life, you feel strong in your sense of mission. You’re no longer driven by everything that happens to you. Rather, you feel a deep and complete commitment to following your innermost values.

Dawn Angier

  

   

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There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action and because there is only one of you in all of time this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. It is not your business to determine how good it is, nor how valuable, nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours, clearly and directly, to keep the channel open.

Martha Graham

  

I've learned-
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned-
that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned-
that you can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned-
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned-
that regardless of how hot and steamy
a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had
better be something else to take its place.

I've learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when
it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned-
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned-
that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.

   

There are those of us who are always about to live. We are waiting until things change, until there is more time, until we are less tired, until we get a promotion, until we settle down -- until, until, until. It always seems as if there is some major event that must occur in our lives before we begin living.

George Sheehan

   
  

please take good care of yourself. . . .

  

   

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