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We
are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we
pretend to be.
Kurt
Vonnegut, Jr.
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Peace
is such a precious jewel that I would give anything for it but
truth.
Matthew
Henry
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Civilized
people have exchanged some part of their chances of happiness
for a measure of security.
Sigmund
Freud
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Commentary on Doubt
Iyanla Vanzant
It is a proven scientific fact that no two things can
occupy the same space at the same time. This theory
applies to the mind and heart of human beings. Where
there is trust there can be no doubt. The moment
doubt enters, trust has disappeared. You cannot
believe and doubt. To believe is to know,
understand, and accept the immutable truth. The
truth does not change. The truth cannot be
altered. Where there is total, unquestioning
reliance on the truth, there can be no doubt. Doubt
enters our consciousness and invades the mind when we
forget the truth, and when we do not trust in the
omnipresence of the divine law.
Doubt is bred in the mental state of attachment or
emotional investment in the outcome. When we have a
fixed idea of how things should be and how we want them to
look, we become doubtful that we will get what we
want. The doubt stems from our beliefs, many of
which hinge on our thoughts and feelings of
unworthiness. When we believe we are not worthy of
having what we want, we doubt that we can or will receive
it. Doubt is also the mental and emotional response
to our need to be in control. To be in control we
must know everything about everything. We fix our
sights on a particular outcome and a method of achieving
that outcome. When it appears that our plans are
going awry, the natural response is fear, which is the
primary ingredient of doubt. Control-based doubt is
what we call worry. Worry is the direct descendant
of the need to be in control.
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What we must realize is that we cannot see
everything. We do not know everything. More
important, we must understand that it is impossible for us
to control anything. The process of life is a
spiritual one, governed by invisible, intangible spiritual
laws and principles. When we are in alignment with
those laws and principles, we experience the natural
outcome of the laws in action. The laws bring into
manifestation the will of God. This is a will for
the good of everyone. When we understand and embrace
this truth, there is never a reason to doubt. We
know that no matter what it looks like, the final outcome
will be something good.
We attract into our lives that which we focus upon with
the strongest intent. Unfortunately, most of us do
not monitor our thoughts, and therefore have no idea what
we are thinking about most of the time. Even on
those occasions when we do focus, do plan, do concentrate
on our intended desire, we evaluate our progress toward
achievement by the appearance of physical evidence.
We evaluate and judge what we see as the determining
factor of our progress toward a desired end. When
one predetermined element fails to appear as we have
determined it should, we doubt ourselves and our
progress. The moment a seed of doubt becomes
embedded in our thoughts, we can become so preoccupied
with fixing what has apparently gone wrong that our
thoughts shift from the desired outcome. We are now
focused intently on ensuring that nothing goes
wrong. Forestalling wrong, rather than desired
intent, becomes the focus. That focus will
ultimately grow into the very thing we fear, the failure
to obtain the desired outcome.
Constant
prayer and affirmation are the strongest defenses against
doubt. Praying for guidance and believing that we
have received it will bring our actions into alignment
with Divine Will. Affirming the truth about
ourselves and life will set into motion the spiritual
principles of divine order and divine timing. We
always get exactly what we need when we need it, even when
we are not aware that we need it. Learning to live
without having to evaluate every appearance, while
remaining focused on our desire, knowing that it is the
outcome of a good intent, leaves no room for doubt to grow
in the conscious mind. Intent is the energy that
supports expectation. Expectations always determine
results. When we expect to be guided and protected
and to receive the benefits of Divine Will, we can expect
the results of all endeavors to be favorable.
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Ordained
minister and "spiritual life counselor"
Iyanla Vanzant doesn't know the exact moment when
her soul opened up "and the spirit of the
divine entered [her] body." But she will always
remember the key insight that opened the door to her
soul and simultaneously locked the door to her
insanity: "If you know who walks beside you,
you can never be afraid." This is the premise
from which Vanzant has launched her enormously
successful 40-day, spiritual self-help program. One
Day My Soul Just Opened Up is designed as
day-by-day journal/workbook to help readers believe
in a divine presence while pondering daily spiritual
lessons such as simplicity, peace, compassion, and
nonjudgement. |
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Creative
Oneness
Wilferd
A. Peterson
Centuries
ago, a Hindu sage warned mankind of the evil of
exclusion. "Slay the sense of separation which
weans you from the rest of the world," he wrote.
Ashley
Montagu, a modern anthropologist, declared that there is
no such thing as race, and that all people spring from
common ancestors. "The existing varieties of
humankind are derived from the same ancestral group,"
he pointed out, "and belong to a single
species."
In living
with others on this earth we need to recognize the reality
of our commonalities. We are brothers and
sisters. There are no born bigots. The thought
patterns, habits, emotions, and ideals that motivate us
are acquired. Biologically we are one, and our task
is to create a mental and spiritual oneness. We must
stop incorrect thinking before incorrect thinking stops
us.
Albert
Schweitzer proclaimed a universal ethic that I believe has
great power to help us achieve creative oneness. He
expressed this ethic in three dynamic words: Reverence
for life.
When we
have reverence for life, we will never do anything to
harm, hinder or destroy life. Instead we do
everything we can to help life fulfill its highest
destiny. We come to realize that when we proclaim
war on life, we proclaim war on ourselves, for the same
life flows through all of us.
We will
not achieve creative oneness in a moment, but it should
always be our ultimate goal. Our creative thinking
should be concentrated on bringing people together in all
those areas that contribute to our common good. We
should cooperate instead of fight, believe instead of
doubt, save instead of destroy, love instead of hate.
Exclusion
builds walls between people. It tears people
apart. It separates races, colors, religions, and
nations. It divides life. But creative oneness
will turn us around. Instead of shaking fists, we
will join hands; instead of slamming doors, we will swing
them open; instead of building walls, we will tear them
down. And instead of rejecting people, we will
accept them.
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we carry within each one of us
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For
one human being to love another: that is perhaps
the most
difficult of all our tasks; the ultimate, the last
test and
proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.
Rainer
Maria Rilke
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Your
mission statement becomes your
constitution, the solid expression of your vision
and values. It becomes the criterion by which
you measure everything else in your life. . . . Writing or
reviewing a mission statement changes you because it
forces you to think through your priorities deeply,
carefully, and to align your behavior with your beliefs.
Stephen
Covey |
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In
This Day
Robert C. Perks
In this day
I
choose living not just for the sake of passing time.
I choose to take advantage of
the milliseconds between my breath and my sigh.
- In this day
I will
grasp hold of the moments I lost so many times before as words
rolled off my tongue penetrating the ears and hearts of those
whom I wanted to hurt and did.
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- In this day
I will make up for time lost by living between my thoughts and
my action. I will live up to my potential, which through God's
Grace is unlimited.
In this day
I will
help someone else find the greatest gift of all...While we spend
our lives in pursuit of success and happiness, we have all that we
will ever need from the moment of conception until our last
breath.
In this day
I will acknowledge that I am a magnificent creation capable of the
greatest accomplishments. I am one of a kind. Never before in the
history of human existence and never again will there be another
me. I have a purpose, a mission and with that a responsibility to
fulfill those goals. The key to success is in "knowing"
and "believing" that I can, then purposefully taking
action. The "knowing" is the small voice you hear deep
within that gives direction. It sparks the dreams and softens the
indignant blows that life throws at us. It is the spirit of our
being connected to the Great Power. It never goes away although
many spend a lifetime trying to block it out.
"Believing" comes once we have accepted that self esteem
is not an ego trip but a verification that you are a living
miracle created by God. Although we are all capable of grand
accomplishments that can change the world, we all succeed at
various levels none less important than the next.
Some listen
intently to the voice and act upon those beliefs. Others
cautiously follow taking life step by step. Even those who do not
heed the call serve a purpose. They often serve as the best
friend, the parent, the neighbor who ignites the spark in others
bound for greater goals.
In this day
I will celebrate as if it was my birthday and 24 hours was my
gift. I will treasure the sunrise and save the light in my hand
for darkened days. I will fill my lungs to capacity with the sweet
smell of life and consume the colors that surround me like a meal
fit for a king. I will taste the reds and yellows of the flowers
and bathe in the blues and greens of the sky and grass. At the end
of the day in the darkest hours my soul will light the way to rest
in the satisfaction of knowing I did not waste a morsel.
Then in my last day on this
earth I will leave filled with joy to a better place knowing that
I have served my purpose and completed my mission. I will leave
behind my energy that will disperse into every rock and tree and
molecule. I will not wither to the ground as failure and serve as
a pathway. I will rise with the sun to bring joy forever to those
who will dream after me. I am important. I am successful. I am
God's creation. I am alive!
"In this
day..." taken from The Flight of a Lifetime!: A Journey of Discovery for a Person of Importance...YOU!
, a book
by Robert C. Perks ©1997.
Bob Perks is a professional speaker and author. |
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When
Walker first steps onto the road, he has no thoughts, no
history, no memories, and no clothes. As he travels and
meets people and learns from them, he comes to know more
about life, living, and becoming the person he's meant to
be. Walker is a parable for all of us who wonder
what might be the purpose of life, why bad things happen
with almost as much regularity as good things, and how we
can learn from the bad examples and experiences in our
lives as much as we can learn from the good things. Tom
Walsh's parable is a story of the ages, a timeless
exploration of ideas and thoughts that all of us wonder
about, a sincere and heartfelt portrait of a man who has
no past and no future, but who learns to make the most of
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Nothing has a stronger
influence psychologically
on their environment,
and especially on
their children,
than the unlived
life of the parents.
Carl Jung
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I asked God to take away my
pride.
God said, "No. It is not for me to take away, but for
you to give it up."
I asked God to make my
handicapped child whole.
God said, "No. Her spirit is whole, her body is only
temporary."
I asked God to grant me
patience.
God said, "No. Patience is a by-product of
tribulations; it isn't granted, it is earned."
I asked God to give me
happiness.
God said, "No. I give you blessings, happiness is up to
you."
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, "No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly
cares and brings you closer to me."
I asked God to make my spirit
grow.
God said, "No. You must grow on your own, but I will
prune you to make you fruitful."
I asked for all things that I
might enjoy life.
God said, "No. I will give you life so that you may
enjoy all things."
I asked God to help me love
others, as much as God loves me.
God said... "Ahhhh, finally you have the idea!"
Someone accurately said that
maturity in prayer occurs when we are able to move from the
plea, "Give me..." to the deeper prayer, "Use
me."
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During the
first period of a person's life the greatest danger is not to take the risk. When once the risk has been taken,
then the greatest danger is to risk too much. By not risking at
first one turns aside and serves trivialities; in the second case, by risking
too much, one turns aside to the fantastic and perhaps to presumption.
Sören
Kierkegaard
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