11 September 2007

   

We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

Peace is such a precious jewel that I would give anything for it but truth.

Matthew Henry

Civilized people have exchanged some part of their chances of happiness for a measure of security.

Sigmund Freud

   

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Commentary on Doubt
Iyanla Vanzant

Creative Oneness
Wilferd A. Peterson

In This Day
Robert C. Perks

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Commentary on Doubt
Iyanla Vanzant

It is a proven scientific fact that no two things can occupy the same space at the same time.  This theory applies to the mind and heart of human beings.  Where there is trust there can be no doubt.  The moment doubt enters, trust has disappeared.  You cannot believe and doubt.  To believe is to know, understand, and accept the immutable truth.  The truth does not change.  The truth cannot be altered.  Where there is total, unquestioning reliance on the truth, there can be no doubt.  Doubt enters our consciousness and invades the mind when we forget the truth, and when we do not trust in the omnipresence of the divine law.

Doubt is bred in the mental state of attachment or emotional investment in the outcome.  When we have a fixed idea of how things should be and how we want them to look, we become doubtful that we will get what we want.  The doubt stems from our beliefs, many of which hinge on our thoughts and feelings of unworthiness.  When we believe we are not worthy of having what we want, we doubt that we can or will receive it.  Doubt is also the mental and emotional response to our need to be in control.  To be in control we must know everything about everything.  We fix our sights on a particular outcome and a method of achieving that outcome.  When it appears that our plans are going awry, the natural response is fear, which is the primary ingredient of doubt.  Control-based doubt is what we call worry.  Worry is the direct descendant of the need to be in control.

What we must realize is that we cannot see everything.  We do not know everything.  More important, we must understand that it is impossible for us to control anything.  The process of life is a spiritual one, governed by invisible, intangible spiritual laws and principles.  When we are in alignment with those laws and principles, we experience the natural outcome of the laws in action.  The laws bring into manifestation the will of God.  This is a will for the good of everyone.  When we understand and embrace this truth, there is never a reason to doubt.  We know that no matter what it looks like, the final outcome will be something good.

We attract into our lives that which we focus upon with the strongest intent.  Unfortunately, most of us do not monitor our thoughts, and therefore have no idea what we are thinking about most of the time.  Even on those occasions when we do focus, do plan, do concentrate on our intended desire, we evaluate our progress toward achievement by the appearance of physical evidence.  We evaluate and judge what we see as the determining factor of our progress toward a desired end.  When one predetermined element fails to appear as we have determined it should, we doubt ourselves and our progress.  The moment a seed of doubt becomes embedded in our thoughts, we can become so preoccupied with fixing what has apparently gone wrong that our thoughts shift from the desired outcome.  We are now focused intently on ensuring that nothing goes wrong.  Forestalling wrong, rather than desired intent, becomes the focus.  That focus will ultimately grow into the very thing we fear, the failure to obtain the desired outcome.

Constant prayer and affirmation are the strongest defenses against doubt.  Praying for guidance and believing that we have received it will bring our actions into alignment with Divine Will.  Affirming the truth about ourselves and life will set into motion the spiritual principles of divine order and divine timing.  We always get exactly what we need when we need it, even when we are not aware that we need it.  Learning to live without having to evaluate every appearance, while remaining focused on our desire, knowing that it is the outcome of a good intent, leaves no room for doubt to grow in the conscious mind.  Intent is the energy that supports expectation.  Expectations always determine results.  When we expect to be guided and protected and to receive the benefits of Divine Will, we can expect the results of all endeavors to be favorable.
   

Ordained minister and "spiritual life counselor" Iyanla Vanzant doesn't know the exact moment when her soul opened up "and the spirit of the divine entered [her] body." But she will always remember the key insight that opened the door to her soul and simultaneously locked the door to her insanity: "If you know who walks beside you, you can never be afraid." This is the premise from which Vanzant has launched her enormously successful 40-day, spiritual self-help program. One Day My Soul Just Opened Up is designed as day-by-day journal/workbook to help readers believe in a divine presence while pondering daily spiritual lessons such as simplicity, peace, compassion, and nonjudgement.

  
  

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Creative Oneness
Wilferd A. Peterson

Centuries ago, a Hindu sage warned mankind of the evil of exclusion.  "Slay the sense of separation which weans you from the rest of the world," he wrote.

Ashley Montagu, a modern anthropologist, declared that there is no such thing as race, and that all people spring from common ancestors.  "The existing varieties of humankind are derived from the same ancestral group," he pointed out, "and belong to a single species."

In living with others on this earth we need to recognize the reality of our commonalities.  We are brothers and sisters.  There are no born bigots.  The thought patterns, habits, emotions, and ideals that motivate us are acquired.  Biologically we are one, and our task is to create a mental and spiritual oneness.  We must stop incorrect thinking before incorrect thinking stops us.

Albert Schweitzer proclaimed a universal ethic that I believe has great power to help us achieve creative oneness.  He expressed this ethic in three dynamic words:  Reverence for life.

When we have reverence for life, we will never do anything to harm, hinder or destroy life.  Instead we do everything we can to help life fulfill its highest destiny.  We come to realize that when we proclaim war on life, we proclaim war on ourselves, for the same life flows through all of us.

We will not achieve creative oneness in a moment, but it should always be our ultimate goal.  Our creative thinking should be concentrated on bringing people together in all those areas that contribute to our common good.  We should cooperate instead of fight, believe instead of doubt, save instead of destroy, love instead of hate.

Exclusion builds walls between people.  It tears people apart.  It separates races, colors, religions, and nations.  It divides life.  But creative oneness will turn us around.  Instead of shaking fists, we will join hands; instead of slamming doors, we will swing them open; instead of building walls, we will tear them down.  And instead of rejecting people, we will accept them.
  

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that the creative potentials which
we carry within each one of us
are truly unique and endless.

   

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For one human being to love another: that is perhaps
the most difficult of all our tasks; the ultimate, the last
test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.

Rainer Maria Rilke

  

Your mission statement becomes your
constitution, the solid expression of your vision
and values.  It becomes the criterion by which
you measure everything else in your life. . . . Writing or reviewing a mission statement changes you because it forces you to think through your priorities deeply, carefully, and to align your behavior with your beliefs.

Stephen Covey

  
   
In This Day
Robert C. Perks

In this day
I choose living not just for the sake of passing time.  I choose to take advantage of the milliseconds between my breath and my sigh.
 In this day I will grasp hold of the moments I lost so many times before as words rolled off my tongue penetrating the ears and hearts of those whom I wanted to hurt and did.
 
In this day I will make up for time lost by living between my thoughts and my action. I will live up to my potential, which through God's Grace is unlimited.

In this day I will help someone else find the greatest gift of all...While we spend our lives in pursuit of success and happiness, we have all that we will ever need from the moment of conception until our last breath.

In this day I will acknowledge that I am a magnificent creation capable of the greatest accomplishments. I am one of a kind. Never before in the history of human existence and never again will there be another me. I have a purpose, a mission and with that a responsibility to fulfill those goals. The key to success is in "knowing" and "believing" that I can, then purposefully taking action. The "knowing" is the small voice you hear deep within that gives direction. It sparks the dreams and softens the indignant blows that life throws at us. It is the spirit of our being connected to the Great Power. It never goes away although many spend a lifetime trying to block it out. "Believing" comes once we have accepted that self esteem is not an ego trip but a verification that you are a living miracle created by God. Although we are all capable of grand accomplishments that can change the world, we all succeed at various levels none less important than the next. 

Some listen intently to the voice and act upon those beliefs. Others cautiously follow taking life step by step. Even those who do not heed the call serve a purpose. They often serve as the best friend, the parent, the neighbor who ignites the spark in others bound for greater goals.

In this day I will celebrate as if it was my birthday and 24 hours was my gift. I will treasure the sunrise and save the light in my hand for darkened days. I will fill my lungs to capacity with the sweet smell of life and consume the colors that surround me like a meal fit for a king. I will taste the reds and yellows of the flowers and bathe in the blues and greens of the sky and grass. At the end of the day in the darkest hours my soul will light the way to rest in the satisfaction of knowing I did not waste a morsel.

Then in my last day on this earth I will leave filled with joy to a better place knowing that I have served my purpose and completed my mission. I will leave behind my energy that will disperse into every rock and tree and molecule. I will not wither to the ground as failure and serve as a pathway. I will rise with the sun to bring joy forever to those who will dream after me. I am important. I am successful. I am God's creation.  I am alive!


"In this day..." taken from The Flight of a Lifetime!: A Journey of Discovery for a Person of Importance...YOU! , a book by Robert C. Perks ©1997.  Bob Perks is a professional speaker and author.

  

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Nothing has a stronger
influence psychologically
on their environment,
and especially on
their children,
than the unlived
life of the parents.

Carl Jung

  
I asked God to take away my pride.
God said, "No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up."

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, "No. Her spirit is whole, her body is only temporary."

I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, "No. Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is earned."

I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, "No. I give you blessings, happiness is up to you."

I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, "No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me."

I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, "No. You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful."

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, "No. I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things."

I asked God to help me love others, as much as God loves me.
God said... "Ahhhh, finally you have the idea!"

Someone accurately said that maturity in prayer occurs when we are able to move from the plea, "Give me..." to the deeper prayer, "Use me."

   

During the first period of a person's life the greatest danger is not to take the risk.  When once the risk has been taken, then the greatest danger is to risk too much.  By not risking at first one turns aside and serves trivialities; in the second case, by risking too much, one turns aside to the fantastic and perhaps to presumption.

Sören Kierkegaard

   
  

  

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