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One
of the chief reasons for success in life is the
ability to maintain a daily interest in one's work,
to have a chronic enthusiasm, to regard each day as
important.
William
Lyon Phelps
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We will discover the true nature of
our particular genius when we stop trying to conform
to our own or to other people's models, learn to be
ourselves, and allow our natural channels to open.
Shakti Gawain
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Be
where you are right now. See what's in front
of you, not what you wish were there. Take
time to see, enjoy, and appreciate what's
present. Take action if you need to. Or
just enjoy the view. You've worked hard to get
here. Enjoy it.
Melody
Beattie
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Balance
(an excerpt)
Susan L. Taylor
Living
in balance is vital to our well-being. Without
balance, much of the beauty and grandeur of our existence
is lost. But a balanced life doesn't just
happen. It is a state of grace we create by staying
connected with our thoughts and feelings and consciously
measuring what we do. Just as feeling fit and
flexible demands physical exercise, just as expanding your
mind requires intellectual effort, so bringing your life
into balance and maintaining your spiritual equilibrium
require focused awareness and daily retreat from the
stresses of the world.
The
wisdom and strength you seek await you in the silence
within. Awakening to our deepest desires, to our
needs and to our truth requires reflection and inner
listening. We must create the space in our lives
where our physical self and our spiritual being can
meet. The more we nourish our internal world, the
more powerful we grow in the external world.
Retreating doesn't free us from the concerns of the
external world, but it delivers us from the pain of living
in it.
Look
to the light within you. It's awaiting your
attention, longing for your return. You may have
lost sight of your inner radiance as you turned to look
outside yourself for validation and meaning. You may
have forgotten it as you gave authority not to your own
inner voice, but to the dictates and opinions of
others. Yet no matter how far you wander or how long
you stay away, the divine light never flickers or
dims. You are host to the eternal flame. It
glows in the silence of your being to illumine your life
and light your way.
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The
tempests of the world can never eclipse or snuff it
out--just as you don't diminish the light of the sun by
pulling down the shades. The radiance within us is
always shining, and solitude opens wide the way.
We
would probably be more zealous about retreating from the
world if it were a complicated task, requiring great
effort. But, in fact, the task could not be simpler,
because there is nowhere to go, nothing to do. To
retreat, you need only be. How? By giving
yourself to yourself before you give yourself away.
It's amazing how a simple fifteen minutes or more of quiet
inner listening each day creates such abundant peace and
joy. My life works beautifully when I start each day
in communion, when I draw a warm bath, lace the water with
fragrant oils--frankincense, jasmine, lavender or
patchouli--light a single candle and retreat. During
this precious time, the tiny bathroom in my small
Manhattan apartment becomes a grand and healing space for
me.
Choose
your place. Any place that's quiet and where you
feel completely comfortable--your bed, and easy chair, a
mat on the floor--will do. Stretch fully for a few
seconds from head to toe before you settle in.
Sitting or lying down, close your eyes gently. Allow
yourself to breathe slowly, deeply exhaling longer than
you inhale. As you exhale, feel yourself letting
go. Consciously relax each part of your body
separately, starting with your feet. Tense and
lighten them as you inhale. Release and relax them
as you exhale. Continue to breathe deeply and fully
as you tense and tighten your calves, thighs, and
buttocks, then your torso, your arms, your shoulders and
face. Is there any tightness in the areas where
stress normally takes hold--your upper back and shoulders,
your neck and jaw? Breathe deeply into each of these
areas as you tighten and release those muscles
again. Let go completely.
Stay
with your breath, breathing slowly, deeply and
rhythmically, consciously inhaling joy and peace and
exhaling stress and strain. Feel yourself descending
deeper and deeper into our breath. You are
completely at ease, your body limp and relaxed.
Listen to the rhythm of your breath whispering in the
stillness. This is the Holy Spirit, the breath of
life in you. You are now in touch with your inner
light. Feel the love, the peace at the center of
your being. Feel its healing light caressing you,
filling you, renewing you. Feel its glow enveloping
you and radiating from you. This is your own
loving-kindness, embracing and restoring you to wholeness.
Now
is the time for asking questions of yourself--and for
listening for your deepest, most intuitive
responses. You need only attune your ear.
There is no problem too trivial or concern too great to
bring to the spirit within. God resides within you
for this very purpose. In this place you can lay
your burdens down. So surrender your worries and
fears, releasing them into the care of your own inner
wisdom. . . .
When
you are ready, open your eyes. Remain still for a
moment and experience how at peace you feel. You may
feel a smile from your very center. Try to hold on
to the tranquil point of light glowing within as you move
through the day.
Soon
you'll discover the lasting faith and understanding that
result from the simple act of listening to yourself in
silence each day. It may even seem miraculous.
As you honor your need for an intimate relationship with
your spirit, you learn to trust in yourself and your inner
wholeness. You gain clarity and insight into the
people and things that enhance or hamper you. You
learn to use your gifts wisely, to set your own
standards. You begin to see how life works, how it
is always deconstructing and reconstructing itself and
always for our higher good.
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Taylor,
editor-in-chief
of Essence magazine, offers
essentially spiritual essays
here. These nine pieces
speak in a conversational
tone, like a trusted friend
guiding one through
emotionally tough times,
leading one to comprehend
the truths of life and death. |
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Read
All The Books
Jim Rohn
All
of the books that we will ever need to make us as rich, as
healthy, as happy, as powerful, as sophisticated and as
successful as we want to be have already been written.
People from all walks of life, people with some of the
most incredible life experiences, people that have gone
from pennies to fortune and from failure to success have
taken the time to write down their experiences so that we
might share in their wealth of knowledge. They have
offered their wisdom and experience so that we can be
inspired by it and instructed by it, and so that we can
amend our philosophy by it. Their contributions
enable us to reset our sail based upon their
experiences. They have handed us the gift of their
insights so that we can change our plans, if need be, in
order to avoid their errors. We can rearrange our
lives based on their wise advice.
All of the insights that we might ever need have already
been captured by others in books. The important
question is this: In the last ninety days, with this
treasure of information that could change our lives, our
fortunes, our relationships, our health, our children and
our careers for the better, how many books have we read?
Why do we neglect to read the books that can change our
lives? Why do we complain but remain the same?
Why do so many of us curse the effect but nourish the
cause? How do we explain the fact that only a small
percent of our entire national population uses the library
card they possess - a card that would give us access to
all of the answers to success and happiness we could ever
want? Those who wish for the better life cannot permit
themselves to miss the books that could have a major
impact on how their lives turn out. The book they
miss will not help!
And the issue is not that books are too expensive!
If a person concludes that the price of buying the book is
too great, wait until he must pay the price for not buying
it. Wait until he receives the bill for continued
and prolonged ignorance.
There is very little difference between someone who cannot
read and someone who will not read. The result of
either is ignorance. Those who are serious seekers
of personal development must remove the self-imposed
limitations they have placed on their reading skills and
their reading habits. There is a multitude of
classes being taught on how to be a good reader and there
are thousands of books on the shelves of the public
libraries just waiting to be read. Reading is
essential for those who seek to rise above the
ordinary. We must not permit anything to stand
between us and the book that could change our lives.
A little reading each day will result in a wealth of
valuable information in a very short period of time.
But if we fail to set aside the time, if we fail to pick
up the book, if we fail to exercise the discipline, then
ignorance will quickly move in to fill the void.
Those who seek a better life must first become a better
person. They must continually seek after
self-mastery for the purpose of developing a balanced
philosophy of life, and then live in accordance with the
dictates of that philosophy. The habit of reading is
a major stepping-stone in the development of a sound
philosophical foundation. And in my opinion it is
one of the fundamentals required for the attainment of
success and happiness.
Reproduced
with permission from the Jim Rohn Weekly E-zine.
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Your
mission statement becomes your
constitution, the solid expression of your vision
and values. It becomes the criterion by which
you measure everything else in your life. . . . Writing or
reviewing a mission statement changes you because it
forces you to think through your priorities deeply,
carefully, and to align your behavior with your beliefs.
Stephen
Covey |
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Stalking
the Truth
Charlie
Badenhop
In the
process of living life, each in our own unique manner, we
follow a complex set of "truths," the vast
majority of which we cobble together along the way.
With my eleven-year-old daughter for instance, she
launched into a complicated theory of diet and health the
other day. Even though I didn't agree with the
theories she was espousing, I was impressed with the
complex view she was presenting. I asked her if she
had learned these concepts in school. "No," she
said, "I learned about this on the TV shopping
channel." When I tried to explain that she was
watching an advertisement designed to sell
a certain product, she got upset and said, "Certainly
the 'doctor' must know more about this subject than you
do!" Wow! What more could I say? My
opinion was being trumped by a "world renowned
authority"!
How about
you? Have you been watching a shopping channel and
confusing what you saw and heard with "the
truth"? Nowadays we have shopping channels for
most everything. Programs proclaiming religion, politics,
health, and self improvement being some of the most
prevalent offerings. So much of what we learn comes
from "teachers" that are doing little more than
trying to sell a product, or lifestyle, by disguising
their offering as a public service announcement.
Recently
I was at a house party and my daughter and her two best
friends were counseling the younger brother of one of the
girls. He was going to start his first year of
school and they were explaining the whole system to
him. How to behave with the teachers, what to do if
he got bullied, and what to say if he all of a sudden had
to go to the toilet in the middle of a lesson. I was
SO intrigued by how authoritative they appeared to
be. The young boy was all ears, and if he was
capable of writing I'm sure he would have been taking
notes! We are all likely to believe what we learn
from those we deem wiser than us. In this case I
think the girls gave good advice, and I realized
embarrassedly that my wife and I had never had such a
detailed conversation with our daughter.
I invite
you to think about what you believe to be true, with the
hope you will realize there is little to hold onto that is
"real" other than your faith. You have
been taught much along the way, and a large portion of
what once might have seemed so certain, has likely
recently been replaced by the newest flavor of the
month. Once you realize that faith is not based upon
"verifiable facts," you can begin to creatively
fashion a new set of personal truths to live your life by.
Here are
a few suggestions to get you started:
1. Appreciate yourself more by
understanding that regardless of the results you achieve,
you really are doing the best you are currently capable
of.
2. Each person in their "heart
of hearts" has only positive intentions. Keep
your positive intentions and devise better strategies for
fulfilling your dreams.
3. Most everything you believe to
be true is actually an opinion and not a statement of
fact. If you'd like to live a more fulfilling life,
realize that faith is more important than facts, and don't
confuse your opinions with the truth.
4. Much of what you believe will
make you happy, gets in the way of your being happy.
Please don't wait around for circumstances to
change. You really can be happy today!
5. Life is perfect just as it is,
and so are you!
These are
the current truths I'm attempting to live my life
by. They are serving me well, and I hope they will
also benefit you to some extent. Please remember to
keep an eye out for the unexpected. That is where the real
fun usually begins!
Copyright
Charlie Badenhop, from the "Pure Heart, Simple
Mind" newsletter. All rights reserved.
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If
you want others to be happy, practice compassion.
If you want to be happy, practice compassion.
The
Dalai Lama
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Happiness cannot come from without.
It must come from within. It is not what we see and touch or that which others do for
us
which makes us happy; it is that which we think and feel and
do,
first for the other person and then for ourselves.
Helen Keller
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Attitude
There once was
a woman who woke up one morning, looked in the mirror, and
noticed she had only three hairs on her head.
"Well," she
said, "I think I'll braid my hair today."
So she did and she
had a wonderful day.
The next day she woke
up, looked in the mirror, and saw that she had only two hairs on her
head.
"Hmm," she
said, "I think I'll part my hair down the middle today."
So she did and she
had a grand day.
The next day she woke
up, looked in the mirror and noticed that she had only one hair on her
head.
"Well," she
said, "today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail."
So she did and she
had a fun, fun day.
The next day she woke
up, looked in the mirror and noticed that there wasn't a single hair
on her head.
"YEA!" she
exclaimed, "I don't have to fix my hair today!"
Attitude is
everything.
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It was probably a mistake to pursue happiness;
much better to create happiness;
still better to create happiness
for others. The more
happiness you created for others
the more would be yours—a solid
satisfaction that no one could ever take away from you.
Lloyd Douglas
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