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December 2006 |
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The
fact that I can plant a seed and it becomes a flower,
share a bit of knowledge and it becomes another's, smile
at someone and receive a smile in return, are to me
continual spiritual exercises.
Leo
F. Buscaglia |
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The
promises of this world are, for the most
part, vain phantoms; and to confide in one's
self, and become something of worth
and value is the best and safest course.
Michelangelo |
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The
joy of brightening other lives, bearing each others'
burdens, easing others' loads and supplanting empty
hearts and lives with generous gifts becomes for us the
magic of Christmas.
W.
C. Jones
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The
Man Who Missed Christmas
J. Edgar Parks
On
Christmas Eve, as usual, George Mason was the last to
leave the office. He stood for a moment at the
window, watching the hurrying crowds below, the strings
of colored Christmas lights, the fat Santa Clauses on
the street corners. He was a slender man in his
late thirties, this George Mason, not conspicuously
successful or brilliant, but a good executive--he ran
his office efficiently and well.
Abruptly
he turned and walked over to a massive safe set into the
far wall. He spun the dials, swung the heavy door
open. A light went on, revealing a vault of
polished steel as large as a small room. George
Mason carefully propped a chair against the open door of
the safe and stepped inside.
He took
three steps forward, tilting his head so that he could
see the square of white cardboard taped just above the
topmost row of strongboxes. George Mason stared at
those words, remembering. . . .
Exactly
one year ago he had entered this selfsame vault.
He had planned a rather expensive, if solitary, evening;
had decided he might need a little additional
cash. He had not bothered to prop the door;
ordinary friction held the balanced mass of metal in
place. But only that morning the people that
serviced the safe had cleaned and oiled it. And
then, behind George Mason's back, slowly, noiselessly,
the ponderous door swung shut. There was a click
of springlocks. The automatic light went out, and
he was trapped--entombed in the sudden and terrifying
dark.
Instantly,
panic seized him. He hurled himself at the
unyielding door. He gave a hoarse cry; the sound
was like an explosion in that confined place. In
the silence that followed, he heard the frantic thudding
of his heart. Through his mind flashed all the
stories he had heard of men found suffocated in time
vaults. No time clock controlled this mechanism;
the safe would remain locked until it was opened from
the outside. Tomorrow morning.
Then
the sickening realization struck him. No one would
come tomorrow morning--tomorrow was Christmas Day.
Once
more he flung himself at the door, shouting wildly,
beating with his hands until he sank to his knees
exhausted. Silence again, high-pitched, singing
silence that seemed deafening.
George
Mason was no smoker; he did not carry matches. Except
for the tiny luminous dial of his watch, the darkness
was absolute. The blackness almost had
texture: it was tangible, stifling. The time
was now 6:15. More than thirty-six hours would
pass before anyone entered the office. Thirty-six
hours in a steel box three feet wide, eight feet long,
seven feet high. Would the oxygen last, or. . .
Like a
flash of lightning a memory came to him, dim with the
passage of time. What had they told him when they
installed the safe? Something about a safety
measure for just such a crisis as this.
Breathing
heavily, he felt his way around the floor. The
palms of his hands were sweating. But in that far
right-hand corner, just above the floor, he found
it: a small, circular opening some two inches in
diameter. He thrust his finger into it and felt,
faint but unmistakable, a cool current of air.
The
tension release was so sudden that he burst into
tears. But at last he sat up. Surely he
would not have to stay trapped for the full thirty-six
hours. Somebody would miss him, would make
inquiries, would come to release him. . . .
But
who? He was unmarried and lived alone. The
maid who cleaned his apartment was just a servant; he
had always treated her as such. He had been
invited to spend Christmas Eve with his brother's
family, but children got on his nerves, and expected
presents.
A
friend had asked him to go to a home for elderly people
on Christmas Day and play the piano--George Mason was a
good musician. But he had made some excuse or
other; he had intended to sit at home, listening to some
new recordings he was giving himself for Christmas.
George
Mason dug his nails into the palms of his hands until
the pain balanced the misery in his mind. He had
thrown away his chances. Nobody would come and let
him out.
Marked
by the luminous hands of the watch, the leaden-footed
seconds ticked away. He slept a little, but not
much. He felt no hunger, but he was tormented by
thirst. Miserably the whole of Christmas Day went
by, and the succeeding night.
On the
morning after Christmas the head clerk came into the
office at the usual time. He opened the safe but
did not bother to swing the heavy door wide. Then
he went on into his private office.
No one
saw George Mason stagger out into the corridor, run to
the water cooler, and drink great gulps of water.
No one paid any attention to him as he descended to the
street and took a taxi home.
There
he shaved, changed his wrinkled clothes, ate some
breakfast and returned to his office, where his
employees greeted him pleasantly but casually.
On his
way to lunch that day he met several acquaintances, but
not a single one had noticed his Christmas
absence. He even met his own brother, who was a
member of the same luncheon club, but his brother failed
to ask if he had enjoyed Christmas.
Grimly,
inexorably, the truth closed in on George Mason.
He had vanished from human society during the great
festival of brotherhood and fellowship, and no one had
missed him at all.
Reluctantly,
almost with a sense of dread, George Mason began to
think about the true meaning of Christmas. Was it
possible that he had been blind all these years, blind
with selfishness, with indifference, with pride?
Wasn't Christmas the time when people went out of their
way to share with one another the joy of Christ's
birth? Wasn't giving, after all, the essence of
Christmas because it marked the time God gave his own
son to the world?
All
through the year that followed, with little hesitant
deeds of kindness, with small, unnoticed acts of
unselfishness, George Mason tried to prepare himself. .
. .
Now,
once more, it was Christmas Eve.
Slowly
he backed out of the safe, closed it. He touched
its grim steel face lightly, almost affectionately, as
if it were an old friend. He picked up his hat and
coat, and certain bundles. Then he left the
office, descended to the busy street.
There
he goes now in his black overcoat and hat, the same
George Mason as a year ago. Or is it? He
walks a few blocks, then flags a taxi, anxious not to be
late. His nephews are expecting him to help them
trim the tree. Afterwards, he is taking his
brother and sister-in-law to a Christmas play. Why
is he so inexpressibly happy? Why does this
jostling against others, laden as he is with bundles,
exhilarate and delight him?
Perhaps
the card has something to do with it, the card he taped
inside his office safe last New Year's Day. On the
card is written, in George Mason's own hand: To
love people, to be indispensable somewhere, that is the
purpose of life. That is the secret of happiness. |
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What
we don't let out traps us. We think, no one else feels
this way,
I must be crazy. So we don't say anything. And we
become enveloped
by a deep loneliness, not knowing where our feelings come from
or what to do with them. Why do I feel this way? Last
week, I was on
top of the world and now my feelings don't make sense.
Voicing it,
getting it out and letting other people hear it, helps to
dissipate it.
The fears and self-criticisms begin to leak. And we begin to
heal.
Sabrina
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Eyes Wide Open
tom walsh
The Spirit, Not the Day
December
25 is just another day on the calendar. There is
nothing about the day that is different--it begins just
at midnight and ends at midnight, twenty-four hours
later. The day holds 24 hours, and thus 1440
minutes, and sixty times that number of seconds.
It contains morning, mid-day, afternoon, evening, and
night. The sun rises on that day, and it
sets. Plants continue to grow at the same pace
they grew the day before, weather systems continue to
develop and unfold, ocean tides follow their same
patterns, and the earth continues to spin on its same
orbit. There
is nothing about the day itself that's different--but
what is different is the spirit that we bring to the
day. We ourselves change during our holiest
seasons, no matter what religions we may follow or what
holidays we may keep, because we change our focus and we
allow our perspectives to broaden so that we can see and
understand more of the world around us. Why
are people more giving at Christmas than at any other
time of the year? It's simply because they allow
themselves to be. When Christmas is coming, we ask
other people what their needs and wants are, and then we
do our best to fulfill those needs and wants. We
focus on others, and what will make them happy, rather
than focusing on ourselves and what will make us happy. It
isn't a subtle shift at all, but it is a surprising one,
considering how self-focused we tend to be all year
long. Even people who seem to have the hardest of
hearts can become generous and thoughtful at
Christmastime, and we always marvel at the changes we
see in their way of looking at the world. For
Thanksgiving this year, my wife and I both worked--she
worked all day, and I worked until 9 p.m. There
are those who would say that we didn't have a
Thanksgiving because we weren't able to take part in the
festivities of the day. Nothing, though, could be
further from the truth. We both said our thanks
over breakfast that morning, and we both kept in mind
all day long that the fact that we were working meant
that someone else could have the entire day off.
And on Saturday, we had our turkey dinner, complete with
stuffing and sweet potatoes and cranberry sauce.
Just because our Thanksgiving meal--and meals are very
important ceremonies in most cultures--came 48 hours
later than most people's didn't diminish its specialness
for us at all. Christmas
is the same way. There's nothing special about
particular moments of time except what we make of
them. There is broad agreement all over the world
that December 25 will be a special day, so those of us
who consider the day to be a holiday treat the day
differently and see it in a new light each year.
But what would happen if we all were to treat February
17 with the same reverence and respect? Then, of
course, that day would become a very special for all of
us. So
why don't we? What's wrong with treating February
17--or June 8, or September 22--with the same reverence
and respect with which we treat December 25? Why
can't we spend the days leading up to each day finding
out the needs and wants of others, and then trying to
fulfill some--or one--of those needs? What would
our lives be like if we were to bring to each day the
spirit that we bring to December 25? What kind of
a world would this be if we were to do so? There's
a good chance that both my wife and I will be working
this Christmas, also. But that's okay with us, for
we know that we can make holy any day of the year.
It depends on us, and on what we bring to the day.
The day itself is ordinary, as all days are. |
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The
17 Universal Principles of Success and Achievement
(part
two)
Napoleon Hill
The
key to success is a combination of the 17 principles
presented here and in the program the Science of
Personal Achievement.
These
17 principles serve as a dependable road map leading
directly to the source of all riches--be they
intangible or material. Follow this map and
you cannot miss the way. But be prepared to
comply with all of the instructions and to assume
all of the responsibilities that go with achieving
success.
And,
above all, remember that enduring success must be
shared with others.
Napoleon
Hill spent a lifetime researching the secrets of
success. Some of the most celebrated and
successful people of the 20th century shared their
insights with him during the course of his work,
initially inspired by the industrialist Andrew
Carnegie.
The
500 greats who collaborated with Napoleon Hill
included Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell, Henry
Ford, Woodrow Wilson, Charles Schwab, J. Pierpont
Morgan, and F.W. Woolworth.
While
you might not found an international corporation or
invent a life-altering device (but then again, you
might!), if you use these inspired and inspiring
keys to success, you will learn how to take full
possession of your mind and your life, understand
how adversity can be turned to your advantage and
develop nurturing, harmonious relationships.
Countless
millions worldwide have benefited from Napoleon
Hill's work. Now it is your turn.
10. Imagination.
Imagination
is your mind's exercise, challenge and adventure.
It uses old ideas and established facts to reassemble
them into new combinations and to put them to new uses.
Exercise:
Two imagination exercises: First, imagine your
"ideal" life, the one in which your goal has
been reached, things are the way that you want them, you
have everything you desire. What is that life
like? Describe it in detail. Describe all
aspects of it--what you have, where you live, who you
love, etc.
Second,
imagine five alternative methods of achieving your goal;
it's always good to have several choices. Let your
imagination soar, held back by no barriers. Might
these new ideas be incorporated into your current plan
of attack?
Imagination
is the workshop of the soul.
11.
Learning from Adversity and Defeat.
Hardship
and adversity are a common language of nature in which
she speaks to all living creatures and teaches them many
things they would not learn in any other way.
Exercise:
Review your life--both professional and in the personal
realm--and recall several obstacles that have stood in
your way. Think about those obstacles and what
followed after encountering them. Remember how
many of them actually led to positive things: new
knowledge, inspiration, a "lucky" break.
Describe one of these incidents in detail.
Every
adversity carries with it the seed of an equivalent or
greater benefit.
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Budgeting Time and Money.
Successful
people know themselves, not as they think they
are, but as their habits have made them:
the use of time and money are the most vital
of these habits.
Exercise:
Detail the time and monetary expenses of
achieving your goals. Break down the
costs as specifically as possible. Where
will you find that time? Where will you
find the money? Will you have to deduct
time or money from other tasks or needs?
What will you do with any spare money you
have?
Tell
me how you use your spare time and how you
spend your money, and I will tell you where
and what you will be ten years from now.
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The
Science of Personal Achievement
Napoleon Hill |
13. Positive
Mental Attitude.
To
govern your life, you must be able to govern your mind,
and that is the starting point of all riches.
Exercise:
Over the next few days, review how much time you spend
on the negative aspects: complaining, gossiping,
fearing or doubting, criticizing. Make an effort
to erase these from your life. Apply the time you
save to something positive (see #12). Replace
negative words--can't, won't shouldn't--with positive
ones--can, will, shall (see #9).
Be
careful what you wish for, for you will surely achieve
it.
14.
Accurate Thinking.
The
accurate thinker recognizes all the facts of life, both
good and bad, and assumes the responsibility of
separating and organizing the two, choosing those which
serve his needs and rejecting all others.
Exercise:
Think of three statements about the obstacles you might
encounter that you now consider facts. Think hard
about the truth of each, doing research if necessary
(see #8). Are these really true? For
example, you own a company that sells beach
chairs. Your obstacle is that beach chairs sell
poorly in winter. That is a fact. But does
that mean beach chairs must sell poorly in January or
simply in cold weather? What if you found a
distributor in the Caribbean or South America? The
fact is, beach chairs could sell year round; it all
depends on how you look at the facts!
You
are what you think.
15.
Sound Physical Health.
The
key that coordinates all other principles and sets all
ideas into motion, sound health provides the
"flavor" to the good things in life.
Exercise:
For one week, keep track of everything you eat and
drink. What percentage of that is
"healthy"? What did you eat or drink
that could do you harm? What should you do away
with? During the week, did you exercise?
What sort of exercise? How many times and for how
long? And your sleep habits, how were they?
Did you get all of the sleep your body needed? Why
or why not? How could you change your lifestyle or
your schedule to incorporate a proper diet and sleep
regimen?
Good
health, a sense of well-being and a purpose for living
make any day beautiful.
16.
Cooperation.
Harmony
based on a definite motive, cooperation is the medium
through which great personal power may be attained; the
willing cooperation and coordination of effort to
achieve a specific objective.
Exercise:
Returning to your Master Mind list (see #2), think of
ways in which you might use your skills and knowledge to
help the people named there in return for the help they
can give you.
Harmonious
cooperation is a priceless asset that you can acquire in
proportion to your giving.
17.
Cosmic Habitforce.
The
cosmic habitforce is the universe's law of equilibrium,
the one natural law into which all other natural laws
resolve themselves.
Exercise:
You manifest in your life that which you think.
List eight things you would like to manifest by thinking
about them repeatedly and by truly believing in them. When
you learn to weave unpleasant circumstances into
something useful, you're on the road to success. |
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| Facing Christmas
I shall attend to my little errands of love
Early, this year,
So that the brief days before Christmas may be
Unhampered and clear
Of the fever of hurry. The breathless rushing
that I have known in the past
Shall not possess me. I shall be calm in my soul
And ready at last
For Christmas: "The Mass of the Christ."
I shall kneel and call out his name;
I shall take time to watch the beautiful light
Of a candle's flame;
I shall have leisure--I shall go out alone
From my roof and my door;
I shall not miss the silver silence of stars
As I have before;
And, oh, perhaps--If I stand there very still,
And very long--
I shall hear what the clamor of living has
kept from me;
The Angels' song.
Grace Noll Crowell |
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