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Hello there, and
welcome to today! The world continues to turn,
and our planet finds itself many, many miles from the spot
in space
where it was when our last issue came out. We're
also all different
people, having learned and felt our beliefs change and
shifted some
of our opinions, so we go out today as new people in a new
world
in a new place, starting the rest of our lives on this
very day. . . . |
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Desiderata
Max Ehrmann |
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Self-Love (an
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M. Scott Peck |
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A Nice Long
Walk
tom walsh |
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Born with Love
Marianne Williamson |
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have a purpose that is worthwhile, and that is steadily
being accomplished, is one of the secrets of a life that
is worth living.
Herbert
Casson
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Patience and
tenacity of purpose are assets
of infinitely greater value than cleverness.
There is great strength in patiently waiting.
The sun, having set, comes up. The tide ebbs,
but always flows in again.
Fred van Amburgh
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All
people ought to begin with themselves, and make their own
happiness first, from which the happiness of the whole
world would at last unquestionably follow.
Johann
Wolfgang von Goethe
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| There's a tendency among many people (and I
share the tendency to a certain extent) to feel that
"new is better," that in an e-zine like this,
only new material is helpful to people. I have to
disagree, though, even with my own self--sometimes it's
really good to remind ourselves of some of the most
important things. I read books often two or
three times, getting something new from them each
time. The second time I see a good movie is usually
the best. So in that spirit, we present some
reminders today--material that we know you've seen before,
but which is well worth reminding ourselves about. |
Desiderata
Max Ehrmann
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid
loud and aggressive persons--they are vexations to the
spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than
yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep
interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life
is full of heroism.
Be
yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take
kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden
misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You
are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore
be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With
all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be careful.
Strive to be happy. |
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Self-Love
an excerpt from Further along the Road Less Traveled
M. Scott Peck
What do I mean
by self-love?
Back when I
worked as a psychiatrist in the army, the military was interested
in what made successful people click, and so a dozen such people
from different branches of the service were gathered together for
study. They were men and women in their late thirties or
early forties who had all been markedly successful. They had
been promoted ahead of their contemporaries, yet they also seemed
to be popular. Those who had families seemed to be enjoying
a happy family life, their children were doing well in school and
were well adjusted. These people seemed to have a golden
touch.
They were
studied in various dimensions, sometimes as a group, sometimes
individually. As a part of the study they were asked to
write down on a piece of paper -- and they did not have the chance
to consult with one another about this issue -- the three most
important things in their life, in order of priority.
There were two
phenomena that were quite remarkable about the way the group
handled this task. One was the seriousness with which they
took it. The first to return his answer sheet took well over
forty minutes, and a number of the people took more than an hour,
even though they knew that most of the group had finished.
The other thing that was remarkable was that, while the second and
third items on their lists ranged all over the map, all twelve had
written exactly the same answer for number one:
"Myself." Not "Love." Not
"God." Not "My family." But
"Myself."
And that, I
suggest, was an expression of mature self-love. Self-love
implies the care, respect, and responsibility for and the
knowledge of the self. Without loving one's self one cannot
love others. But do not confuse self-love with
self-centeredness. These successful men and women were
loving spouses and parents and caring supervisors.
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Further
Along the Road Less Traveled
takes the lectures of Dr. Peck and presents his profound
insights into the issues that confront and challenge all of
us today: spirituality, forgiveness, relationships, and
growing up. In this aid for living less simplistically, you
will learn not to look for the easy answers but to think
multidimensionally. You will learn to reach for the
"ultimate step," which brings you face to face
with your personal spirituality. It will be this that helps
you appreciate the complexity that is life. |
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Eyes
Wide Open
tom walsh
A
Nice Long Walk
I
think that I've been fortunate to have an innate urge all
my life to take long walks. Ever since I was a kid
(and my wife would argue that those days aren't over!),
I've always loved heading out and walking for hours
sometimes, often with no particular destination or reason
for going other than just to get out and see some more of
life. These walks have done a lot to keep me aware
and to keep me healthy, and I've learned more through
walking than I ever could have by sitting at home, doing
nothing.
One
of the prerequisites for enjoying a nice long walk is
having no real time table. If you have to be back at
a certain time, that's okay, but it certainly doesn't
promote spontaneity or searching out new roads or paths.
It also speeds you up, which means that your chances of
noticing things definitely go down. You may still
notice the major things that you go by such as houses and
trees and nice views, but you'll miss the things like the
cool insect on the tall grass or the way the light makes
certain bushes shimmer. I would never not take a
walk because I had a deadline, but I try to make sure that
I have time to stop where I want to (especially if the
urge for a cup of coffee hits), to extend my walk, or to
explore new directions.
The
health benefits of the long walk cannot be disputed.
Our bodies were made to be used, and walking is great
exercise. It's also very low-impact, which means
that our chances of hurting ourselves while out for a walk
are very low. Walking also helps the heart by
getting to to beat more strongly, helps our circulation
and our lungs, and helps us to shape and define our
muscles, especially in our legs. No one's going to
get the body of a body builder by walking, but the
long-term benefits of walking are well documented, which
is why so many doctors recommend the practice for those of
us who need exercise.
The
mental benefits of walking are also many. Walking
for me has a very similar effect to meditation for other
people. It helps me to clear my mind, and it helps
me to think through problems and dilemmas. When I'm
out walking without hurry and without a destination, my
mind tends to relax as I focus on so many things outside
of myself, as I see the natural world around me and
breathe the fresh air. A long walk can help me to
reach a state of clarity much more easily than any other
practice that I've ever discovered, and walks have often
helped me through difficult times in my life.
I
try to walk as much as I can. If we need a gallon of
milk, I'd much rather take the twenty-minute walk to the
store than the three-minute drive. When I have a
break at work I often take advantage of the time to get
out and spend the time walking. Even if I'm seeing
the same things that I always see on such walks, they're
never exactly the same. Every walk has its own
personality, its own feel, and I love to see and feel
those changes inside. I don't remember ever being
bored on any walk I've ever taken--there's always
something interesting to see.
In
our modern world of hurry and convenience, I often find
that I'm the only one out on the street, walking.
Sidewalks in most places tend to be empty, except for
downtown areas during business hours. I see very few
people walk to the store, and most of those I do see tend
to be either very old or very young. One of the
things that I love about Spain is that the people are out
walking so often--usually the streets of most towns are
packed with people, except during siesta. This fact
leads to much stronger social ties, as people who are
walking have the chance to stop and chat with someone they
know, something we just can't do when we're in our cars.
For
many people, walking hasn't been an option for years.
It's no longer one of the choices they have to
make--should we walk to the movies, or drive? For
most of us, it's assumed that we'll drive wherever we go.
And that's a shame, for most people never will know just
what they're losing by depriving themselves of the
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is a series of choices and as all ideas in this manifested
universe are divided as opposites, we can choose the
negative ego approach or the positive spiritual approach.
. . . From the negative ego approach we learn that we will
suffer until we balance our actions and bring our lives
into harmony with the laws that govern the universe.
This is called the law of hard knocks or karma. With
the positive spiritual approach we choose to live in
obedience to God's will, to live in harmony with universal
laws without being pushed into it. This can be
called the school of grace.
Cheryl
Canfield
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Born with Love
(Introduction to A Return to Love)
Marianne Williamson
When we were born, we were programmed perfectly. We had a
natural tendency to focus on love. Our imaginations were
creative and flourishing, and we knew how to use them. We
were connected to a world much richer than the one we connect to
now, a world full of enchantment and a sense of the miraculous.
So what happened? Why is it that we
reached a certain age, looked around, and the enchantment was
gone?
Because we were taught to focus
elsewhere. We were taught to focus elsewhere. We were
taught to think unnaturally. We were taught a very bad
philosophy, a way of looking at the world that contradicts who we
are.
We were taught to think thoughts like
competition, struggle, sickness, finite resources, limitation,
guilt, bad, death, scarcity, and loss. We began to think
these things, and so we began to know them. We were taught
that things like grades, being good enough, money, and doing
things the right way, are more important than love. We were
taught that we're separate from other people, that we have to
compete to get ahead, that we're not quite good enough the way we
are. We were taught to see the world the way that others had
come to see it. It's as though, as soon as we got here, we
were given a sleeping pill. The thinking of the world, which
is not based on love, began pounding in our ears the moment we hit
shore.
Love is what we were born with.
fear is what we learned here. The spiritual journey is the
relinquishment, or unlearning, of fear and the acceptance of love
back into our hearts. Love is the essential existential
fact. It is our ultimate reality and our purpose on
earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in
ourselves and others, is the meaning of life.
Meaning doesn't lie in things.
Meaning lies in us. When we attach value to things that
aren't love -- the money, the car, the house, the prestige -- we
are loving things that can't love us back. We are searching
for meaning in the meaningless. Money, of itself, means
nothing. Material things, of themselves, mean nothing.
It's not that they're bad. It's that they're nothing.
We came here to co-create with God by
extending love. Life spent with any other purpose in mind is
meaningless, contrary to our nature, and ultimately painful.
It's as though we've been lost in a dark, parallel universe where
things are loved more than people. We overvalue what we
perceive with our physical senses, and undervalue what we know to
be true in our hearts.
Love isn't seen with the physical eyes or
heard with the physical ears. The physical sense can't
perceive it; it's perceived through another kind of vision.
Metaphysicians call it the Third Eye, esoteric Christians call it
the vision of the Holy Spirit, and others call it the Higher
Self. Regardless of what it's called, love requires a
different kind of "seeing" than we're used to -- a
different kind of knowing or thinking. Love is the intuitive
knowledge of our hearts. It's a "world beyond"
that we all secretly long for. An ancient memory of this
love haunts all of us all the time, and beckons us to return.
Love isn't material. It's
energy. It's the feeling in a room, a situation, a
person. Money can't buy it. Sex doesn't guarantee
it. It has nothing at all to do with the physical world, but
it can be expressed nonetheless. We experience it as
kindness, giving, mercy, compassion, peace, joy, acceptance,
non-judgment, joining, and intimacy.
Fear is our shared lovelessness, our
individual and collective hells. It's a world that seems to
press on us from within and without, giving constant false
testimony to the meaninglessness of love. When fear is
expressed, we recognize it as anger, abuse, disease, pain, greed,
addiction, selfishness, obsession, corruption, violence, and war.
Love is hidden within us. It cannot
be destroyed, but can only be hidden. The world we knew as
children is still buried within our minds.
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Williamson
reveals how we each can become a miracle worker by accepting
God and by the expression of love in our daily lives.
Whether psychic pain is in the area of relationships,
career, or health, she shows us how love is a potent force,
the key to inner peace, and how by practicing love we can
make our own lives more fulfilling while creating a more
peaceful and loving world for our children.
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