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We each have
a different kind of strength. Some of us are able to persevere
against hopeless odds. Some are able to see light in a world
of darkness. Some are able to give selflessly with no thought
of return, while others are able to bring a sense of importance into
the hearts of those around them.
But no matter
how we exhibit strength, its truest measure is the calm and certain
conviction with which it causes us to act. It is the ability
to discern the path with heart, and follow it even when at the
moment we might wish to be doing something else.
True strength
is not about force, but about conviction. It lives at the
center of belief where fear and uncertainty cannot gain a
foothold. Its opposite is not cowardice and fear, but
confusion, lack of clarity, and lack of sound intention.
True strength
does not require an adversary and does not see itself as noble or
heroic. It simply does what it must without praise or need of
recognition.
A person who
can quietly stay at home and care for an ailing parent is as strong
as a person who can climb a mountain. A person who can stand
up for a principle is as strong as a person who can fend off an
army. They simply have quieter, less dramatic, kinds of
strength.
True strength
does not magnify others' weaknesses. It makes others
stronger. If someone's strength makes others feel weaker, it
is merely domination, and that is no strength at all.
Take care to
find your own true strength. Nurture it. Develop
it. Share it with those around you. Let it become a
light for those who are living in darkness.
Remember,
strength based in force is a strength people fear. Strength
based in love is a strength people crave.
Simple
Truths. Kent Nerburn
A very nice, simple collection of thoughts and reflections on many
of the aspects of our daily lives that most of us take for
granted--possessions, giving, love, money, travel, and many
others. Very readable and thought-provoking, and well worth a
read.
Visit
Kent's site at kentnerburn.com!
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