Somebody left you, and now there is a gaping hole in
the middle of your soul. The question is how
are you going to fill that hole? Are you going
to fill it with the painful memories of how you got
hurt or got left? Or are you going to fill the
hole with memories of the many moments of joy and
laughter you had together? Are you going to
fill the hole with anger, resentment, fear or shame
directed toward the one who left? Or are you
going to fill the hole with appreciation that you do
have an opportunity to choose how you are going to
fill the hole? Are you going to fill the hole
with the countless reasons why it should not have
happened to you? Or are you going to fill it
with the courage it will take to accept that it did
happen to you, in this way?
Are you going to fill the hole with at least one
ounce of confidence that you can handle this,
whatever it takes? Or are you going to fill
the hole with the self-defeating belief that you
can't or will not make it through or over this
hole? Are you going to empty all of your
self-value, self-worth, and self-esteem in to the
hole until it becomes a pit of self-pity,
self-doubt, and self-inflicted nonsense that keeps you
in a hole of despair? Are you going to throw
yourself into a hole and dare life to try and move
you?
You can cover the hole with love and prayer and
acceptance of your ability to step over or walk
around the hole.
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You can also step back, take
a little break and wait to see the Self that
emerges from the hole. The choice is yours!
Until today, you may have believed that you had to
stay in the painful hole of hurt caused by the loss
of a loved one. Just for today, make a
conscious effort and choice to cover the hole and
move on.
Today
I am devoted to covering the holes
and filling in all the gaps in my life!
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