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It is
therefore important that human intelligence be utilized in a
constructive way. That is the key. If we utilize its
capacity properly, then not only human beings would become less
harmful to each other, and to the planet, but also individual
human beings would be happier in themselves. It is in our
hands. Whether we utilize our intelligence in the right
way or the wrong way is up to us. Nobody can impose their
values on us. How can we learn to use our capacity
constructively? First, we need to recognize our nature and
then, if we have the determination, there is a real possibility
of transforming the human heart.
On this
basis, I will speak on how a human being can find happiness as
an individual, because I believe that the individual is the key
to all the rest. For change to happen in any community,
the initiative must come from the individual. If the
individual can become a good, calm, peaceful person, this
automatically brings a positive atmosphere to the family around
him or her. When parents are warm-hearted, peaceful and
calm people, generally speaking their children will also develop
that attitude and behavior.
The way
our attitude works is such that it is often troubled by outside
factors, so one side of the issue is to eliminate the existence
of trouble around you. The environment, meaning the
surrounding situation, is a very important factor for
establishing a happy frame of mind. However, even more
important is the other side of the issue, which is one's own
mental attitude.
The
surrounding situation may not be so friendly, it may even be
hostile, but if your inner mental attitude is right, then the
situation will not disturb your inner peace. On the other
hand, if your attitude is not right, then even if you are
surrounded by good friends and the best facilities, you cannot
be happy. This is why mental attitude is more important
than external conditions. Despite this, it seems to me
that many people are more concerned about their external
conditions, and neglect the inner attitude of mind. I
suggest that we should pay more attention to our inner
qualities.
There are
a number of qualities which are important for mental peace, but
from the little experience I have, I believe that one of the
most important factors is human compassion and affection: a
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