Let us not look back in anger
or forward in fear, but around
in awareness.

James Thurber

awareness - awareness 3

  

Shut your eyes and you will know what I mean by thought entombed in darkness.
Light comes through the senses, and not only through the sense of sight.
When you see without feeling, you are still partly blind; you lack the inner light
that brings awareness.  Awareness requires the interplay of every faculty,
the use of your entire being as an eye.

Charles A. Lindbergh

  

There is a rhythm in life, a certain beauty which
operates by a variation of lights and shadows,
happiness alternating with sorrow, content with discontent, distilling in this process of contrast a sense of satisfaction,
of richness that can be captured and pinned down only
by those who possess the gift of awareness.

Louis
Bromfield

  
If I were to prescribe one process
in the training of people which is
fundamental to success in any
direction, it would be thorough
ongoing training in the habit
of accurate observation.  It is
a habit which every one of us
should be seeking evermore to perfect.

Eugene G. Grace

 

The next message you need
is always right where you are.

Ram Dass

  
  
You know of the disease in Central Africa called sleeping sickness. . . .
There also exists a sleeping sickness of the soul.  Its most dangerous aspect
is that one is unaware of its coming.  That is why you have to be careful.
As soon as you notice the slightest sign of indifference, the moment
you become aware of the loss of a certain seriousness, of longing,
of enthusiasm and zest, take it as a warning.
You should realize your soul suffers if you live superficially.

Albert Schweitzer

  

Jon 
Kabat- Zinn

Most of the time, if you're not really paying attention,
you're someplace else.  So your child might say, "Daddy,
I want this," and you might say, "Just a minute, I'm busy."
Now that's no big deal--we all get busy, and kids frequently ask for attention.  But over your child's entire youth, you may have
an enormous number of such moments to be really, fully present, but because you thought you were busy, you didn't see
the opportunities these moments presented. . . . People carry around an enormous amount of grief because they missed the little things.

  

Matthew Fox

We must work on our souls, enlarging and expanding them.
We do so by experiencing all of life--
the beauty and the joy as well as the grief and pain.
Soul work requires paying attention to life,
to the laughter and the sorrow,
the enlightening and the frightening,
the inspiring and the silly.

   

 

  

It takes a certain amount of intelligence and imagination to realize the extraordinary queerness and mysteriousness of the world in which we live.

Aldous Huxley

  

The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness,
and the power of contemplation rather than upon mere survival.

Aristotle

   
   

Who said it first?  We don't know, but very often
we find the same ideas attributed to two different
people.  All we can do is give you both. . . .

The universe is full of magical things
patiently waiting for our wits to grow sharper.

Eden Phillpotts

The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.

John Keats

  

Giving our full attention to another person is itself stimulating.  However dull
they might appear to be, the person you're with right now is a human being
with a full set of human qualities that you can respond to.  If you don't see
those qualities in them at first, ask yourself:  Am I looking deeply enough,
attending closely enough?  When people feel that they have your full attention
sometimes they blossom before your eyes.  Even if the communication
only lasts three minutes, it can make a big difference to both of your days.

Kulananda and Dominic Houlder

   

Look everywhere with your eyes; but with your soul never look at many things, but at one.

V.V.  Rozanov

One never knows what each day is going to bring. The important thing is to be open and ready for it.

Henry Moore

  

  

All of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming
of some magical rose garden
over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses
that are blooming outside our windows today.

Dale Carnegie

  

The present moment is significant, not as the bridge between past and future,
but by reason of its contents, which can fill our emptiness and become ours,
if we are capable of receiving them.

Dag Hammarskjold

  

Albert E. Dunning

Great opportunities come to all, but many do not know they have met them. The only preparation to take advantage of them is . . . 
to watch what each day brings.

  

If we face our unpleasant feelings with care, affection, and nonviolence,
we can transform them into a kind of energy that is healthy and has
the capacity to nourish us.  By the work of mindful observation,
our unpleasant feelings can illuminate so much for us, offering us
insight and understanding into ourselves and society.

Thich Nhat Hanh

  
The unthankful heart . . . discovers no mercies; but let the thankful heart
sweep through the day and, as the magnet finds the iron, so it will find,
in every hour, some heavenly blessing.

Henry Ward Beecher

  
   

The best things are nearest: breath in your nostrils, light in your eyes, flowers at
your feet, duties at your hand, the path of God just before you.  Then do not
grasp at the stars, but do life's plain, common work as it comes, certain that
daily duties and daily bread are the sweetest things of life.

Robert Louis Stevenson

  

  

Most human beings have an almost infinite capacity
for taking things for granted.

Aldous Huxley

  

To have an open self is to provide a free channel for the infinite goodness of God. 
To have an open self is to keep yourself aware, alert and sensitive
to the beauty and wonder of life.  God’s love will flow through you
into the world when you are open.  You enlarge the dimensions of your life
when you keep yourself open to the highest and best.  The key to God’s
infinite riches is within you; open yourself and you will receive.

Wilferd A. Peterson

  
Too many people miss the silver lining because they're expecting gold.

Maurice Setter

  

Sunshine is delicious, rain is refreshing,
wind braces us up, snow is exhilarating;
there is really no such thing as bad weather,
only different types of good weather.

John Ruskin

Saint Basil

Many a person curses the rain that 
falls upon their heads, 
and know not  that it brings abundance
 to drive away hunger.

  

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i know full well that one of the greatest gifts that i've been given is that of awareness.  i see things, i hear things, i feel things that i've recognized that other people just don't notice for some reason.  i truly appreciate this gift, for it gives me so much in life that's already there, just waiting to be seen.  i can stand still for an hour in a field in the mountains, just seeing things and feeling the air and hearing the sounds.  i love to sit in one place in the city, just watching people go by, wondering what they're thinking, wondering what that look on her face means, how their lives are going, why he seems so agitated.

of course, there's a prerequisite to awareness--we have to slow down.  we have to realize that life is going to go on whether or not we rush around in order to get everything possible done today, and that our own mental, emotional, and physical well being is at stake.  we have a beautiful world that surrounds us, that offers us unlimited opportunities for peace, serenity, learning, helping, getting, feeling, hoping, love--you name it, it's there in abundant quantities, more than any one of us will never need.  but we have to see it, to acknowledge it's there, to let it become a part of us by making ourselves a part of it.

rainer maria rilke claimed that there are angels and spirits all around us, but over the course of the history of humankind we've pulled away from the things that we used to be able to see clearly; we've lost our connection with this planet upon which we live and everything here.  i believe he has a good point--we're so wrapped up in our jobs and television and movies that we almost never consider what's here that we can't see.  and as much as i dislike what the people involved in television have done to our culture (it's not the television's fault), i appreciate the show the x-files, for that's one of the few shows that actually approaches the possibility of there being more than we can see on this planet with intelligence and respect.

awareness is seeing all around you with different eyes-- appreciative eyes, wondering eyes.  it's knowing what you want out of life (and yes, you have to ask yourself in order to find out) so that you can go after it.  it's knowing that things change, and that what you want today may not be what you want tomorrow.  it's looking into the eyes of a friend or another person and realizing that that's another human being put on this planet with hopes and fears and dreams and desires and needs.

as rilke says, "perhaps all the dragons of our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us once beautiful and brave.  perhaps everything terrible is in its deepest being something helpless that wants help from us."  awareness is the ability to see that the way we see things isn't necessarily the way things are--for every setback or terrible incident, there may be hundreds of ways to see it.  we have to choose to be able to see many possibilities, many explanations.  if we get caught up in being right all the time, we'll never have the blessing of being aware.

tdw

  
  

To become different from what we are,
we must have some awareness of what we are.

Bruce Lee

   
 

Isn't it splendid to think of all the things there are to find out about? 
It just makes me feel glad to be alive--it's such an interesting world.

Montgomery

  

I shall open my eyes and ears.  Once every day I shall simply stare at a tree, a flower, a cloud, or a person.  I shall not then be concerned at all to ask what they are but simply be glad that they are.  I shall joyfully allow them their "divine, magical, and ecstatic" existence.

Clyde S. Kilby

  

When I speak about attention, I mean literally, "How much attention can we pay to ourselves?"
As children, sometimes we cannot hold our attention for more than a couple of seconds.
Over the years we are able to attend to more and more.
Yet, we're seldom schooled to hold life in respect, to enlarge our ability to love,
take care of, and be respectfully connected with all things around us.

Brooke Medicine Eagle

  

There is only one thing about which I shall have no regrets when my life ends.
I have savored to the full all the small, daily joys.  The bright sunshine
on the breakfast table; the smell of the air at dusk; the sound of the clock ticking;
the light rains that start gently after midnight; the hour when the family come home;
Sunday-evening tea before the fire!  I have never missed one moment of beauty,
not even taken it for granted.  Spring, summer, autumn, or winter.
I wish I had failed as little in other ways.

Agnes Sligh Turnbull

  

  

It can be tempting to blame others for our loss of direction.  We get lots of information
about life but little education in life from parents, teachers, and other authority figures,
who should know better from their experience.  Information is about facts.
Education is about wisdom and the knowledge of how to love and survive.
But no matter how much advice you get, you are the one who chooses which train to board.
As you pass through life, pay attention to the signs and stations; if you don't like the scenery,
pull the emergency cord and get off the train.  There is no other conductor in charge.
There is no one who needs to give you permission to transfer.
This is your life.  Your journey.  Your trip to conduct.

Bernie Siegel

  
 

When I found I no longer had the stamina to work long hours clearing the fallen limbs
in the woods around my house, I began to bring a lawn chair and a thermos with me.
I still work in the woods, but stop frequently to sit and have a cup of tea.  I’ve identified birds
I didn’t know lived here and evidence that a bobcat shares the property.  Since I’ve slowed
down some, I see things I never saw before and find that quiet solitude is not lonely
but nurturing, allowing my heart to open to the signs
and lessons of nature that surround me.

Sallirae Henderson

  

A prisoner lived in solitary confinement for years.  He saw and spoke to no one and his meals were served through an opening in the wall.

One day an ant came into his cell.  The man contemplated it in fascination as it crawled around the room.  He held it in the palm of his hand the better to observe it, gave it a grain or two, and kept it under his tin cup at night.

One day it suddenly struck him that it had taken him ten long years of solitary confinement to open his eyes to the loveliness of an ant.

Anthony de Mello

  

We collect data, things, people, ideas, "profound experiences,"
never penetrating any of them. . . But there are other times.
There are times when we stop.  We sit still.  We lose ourselves
in a pile of leaves or its memory.  We listen and breezes
from a whole other world begin to whisper.

James Carroll

 

One does not need to fast for days and meditate for hours at a time
to experience the sense of sublime mystery which constantly envelops us.
All one need do is to notice intelligently, if even for a brief moment,
a blossoming tree, a forest flooded with autumn colors, an infant smiling.

Simon Greenberg

  

 

Even sitting still on a lawn can open up to you a whole
new world, if you look long enough and closely enough.
There is a great deal of life available to you in such a place,
but we usually miss it as we walk quickly over it.  Once I taught
in a building that had a tree growing right next to it, so from
our third-floor window we had a great view of the top of the
tree and all the bugs and birds that lived there or were stopping
by for visits.  That close view taught me a lot about the tops
of trees, and I can't look at trees in exactly the same way any more.

Stop today and look.  Learn.  Appreciate.  See.  Touch. 
Feel.  Looking closely is nothing more than using our
powers of observation, a gift that we were given that
we let lie unused far too often.  If we do this, the
world becomes an awesome, incredible place.

tom walsh

   
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